Does age matter??

ok my fiance is 38 and im 16 1/2 of course he loves me and so do I yes we
have had sex before and its amazing but does it really matter age I mean as long as you love aother thats all that counts right??

no, thats completely disturbing. an amost middle aged man thats old enough to be your own father, and you are engaged and having sex with him? thats a what...21, 22 year age difference? come on. not to mention its illegal.

get serious, and ask what a 38 year old man wants with a 16 and a half year old teenager.

by the way, what do your parents think about this?

they know about us and bye the way he looks like he is 25 years old so STOP thx

lol... it doesn't matter how old he looks, unless you want him as an accesorie? Personally, any almost 40 yr old to agree on a date with a 16 year old is just WRONG, for your sake, end it when you can.. it will come and haunt you. plus is illegal

ok thanks for your answers

Wow...I'm in my early 30's and I can't even imagine being attracted to a teenager. I guarantee you that if your parents knew his real age they would not be okay with it. What would an almost 40 year old man want with a teenager, besides the obvious? Do you even have anything in common? He's spent over half of his life as an adult and you haven't even gotten out of school...doesn't that seem weird to you? Why wouldn't he look for someone his own age? What's wrong with him?

You do know that admitting that you are having sex with him is enough for him to get arrested, right? It is illegal for him to date you, have you never wondered why? Grown men should not ever date a child, it's disgusting and he's using you. For your sake I hope you get out of this before it's too late.

Most defentaly know.
I hate it when people say that it does.
It shouldnt matter what age the person is just as long as you love him.
I have had my heartbroken many times by guys that gave in to peer presure and said I was too young.
Only with me it was like I was 12 at the time and he was 17.
Yeah I was young.
But I also knew I love him with a great passion.
We were 2gether for a few weeks until people started sayin sh!t.
He finally gave in and agreed with the low lifes that age was a factor and broke my heart.
To this day we both still love each other and now no one can change our minds.
Im sure if you and your guy love each other you'll be just fine

--xoxoShania♥

thanks at least you think so

umm I mean age doesn'et matter but something does seem a little wrong about a 36 old datin a 16 yr. old

Love doesn’t always make sense, but the bottom line on this situation is simple: it is weird. Take a good look at the kind of relationship we're talking about here. There are nearly two decades of life dividing the two of you, so what on earth can you guys possibly have in common? Most normal well-adjusted 30+ year old men would run to the nearest psychologist if they ever seriously thought about having that kind of a relationship with a 16 year old child. I wish I could tell you that love conquers all, that age ain’t nothing but a number and that men more than twice your age make great life partners and loyal companions, but I can’t. Any man that old involved with a girl who is so much younger most likely suffers from one, some, or all of the following personality quirks; he is immature, he is an under-achiever, he has low self esteem, he is a control freak, he is in an early mid-life crisis, he is emotionally confused, ~~he’s creepy~~, … When all is said and done, the dude is just not right.