Do you think this is fair?

MY friend says that if I don't like her best friend than she is not going to be friends with me. I don't want to hang out with her best friend because she is mean to me, and I don't like her. Plus she encourages my friend to talk about me. She...

practically TRIES to ruin my friendship with her, and she's mean!!! They both are. BUt do you think that fair. I think she is being unfair and unreasonable!!!

find new friends, they both arent worth it!

no I don't think its fair.

but I also think you shouldn't be friends with them.

Thats not fair at all!

Two faced people arn't real friends you should just ignore them both and hang around with other people, you'll find a lot better friends who don't talk about you behind your back, it happens to everyone but there will always be true friends you can trust.

I speak from experience.

If she's talking behind your back and she's mean, she doesnt sound like a very nice person and you probably deserve better than that. You also deserve better than someone who places conditions on your friendship. If you dont want to be in the company of someone then you shouldnt have to be.

okay but my friend has been my best friend since 4th grade, and we are and 7th now and I don't want to lose her. And she is being really unfair, a jerk, standing up for only 1 person (not me of course) treating me like crap, saying that she is not my friend, talking about me, treating me like a back up friend, and saying that expressing my feelings is annoying, and she does't believe anything I say! And her best friend is always calling me names and telling her that she's about to cry (when I DON'T EVEN DO ANYTHING!) and she doesn't say its annoying to her. She's a butt now, and I don't know what to do! (sniff sniff burst into tears)

omg I just went thru the same thing as you believe me just put your foot down an say she isnt worth is

because a fren like that isnt worth anyones time

Unfortunately sometimes we grow apart from our friends. Our values and priorities sometimes don't mesh as we get older. It is most definitely NOT fair that your friend would make you be friends with someone that does not treat you right. Have a talk with her, and if she still insists, I believe it might be time to move on and make new friends. Good luck, sweetie.