Do you think the boy should make the first move?

Me and my guy friend, have both admitted to liking each other. Yet he hasn't tried anything.
I think it has something to do with the fact my friends keep telling him that I'm a commitmentphobe and that he knows I still have things to sort out with my...

ex.

Do you think things like that are putting him off being affectionate with me and if it is do you think theres anything I can do to make him think differently?

or is it that he's too shy and waiting for me to make the first move?
I really doubt its that as he is pretty old fashioned and advised my girl mate to wait for this guy to ask her out. However he is very shy =/
I know I should probably give it time but I'm growing pretty impatient and I want it to go somewhere with him.
The last relationship he was in he asked the girl out over MSN (!) =|
It lasted a day. Though he doesn't seem that shy with me or anything but he won't try and get close to me. It's really frustrating.

Okay so I know I rambled on loads but I do really need your help.

Thanks.

x

if hel ikes you and you know that, dotn bring your ex into it. it'll mess EVERYTHING up. trust me. dont mention your ex around him, thats a defintite turn off

if you know he likes you there is nothing wrong with you making the first move even if you didnt no he liked you it would still be ok... girls can do nething guys can do ^ ^ hope I helped and if you need further advice funmail me ~kaitlyn~