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Do you think phone sex is cheating?

Asked by melissatellez 5 months ago, 8 answers.

Okay I was gonna lie and say it was my friend but its me haha. Kinda embarrassing but why lie lol. Okay just to get to the point, I had phone sex with one of my guy friends lol...and I had to tell my boyfriend... I couldn't just not tell him. So yeahh he...

was like super mad and well you know. But he forgave me and stuff and so yeah everythings all good except he gets mad when I talk to that guy. Do you think he should get mad? Even if I won't do that again...

Umm I don't know if the question really matches what I said, but its just a grabber so I can get some answers=]

Answered by bondgirl007 on Jun 18, 2009, 08:44PM
20 answers

yeah, he should definitely get angry. he probably doesn't trust you as much, no matter how much you say you're not going to do it any more.

obviously you can't do anything about it now, but I'm sure you understand why he would feel unsafe about you talking to the guy.

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Answered by littelmisspiggy7 on Jun 17, 2009, 08:25PM
59 answers

Haha. Well if my boyfriend did that, I would be mad, then forgive him, and be mad when he talked to the girl cause I would be worried he was gonna do it again eventhough I trust him... I'd be scared thay he was gonna dump me for her or somethin like that.

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Answered by melissatellez on Jun 17, 2009, 08:28PM
237 answers

Omg...I know huh. Duhh I should've just switched it around and thought of it that way...what a dumbnut. Okay thanks. And I would be sooo mad if he talked to a girl he did it with. lol...

Answered by jazlovestoskate on Jun 17, 2009, 11:10PM
10507 answers

no, its not cheating
chesting is something like you skissing, giving oral to, having sex with someone else
phone sex is not cheating
but it is an EXTREEMLY disrespectful thing to do to your boyfreind
so he has the right to be mad about it
how would you feel if he was having phone sex with one of his female friends?
probably not too good

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Answered by jazlovestoskate on Jun 17, 2009, 11:15PM
10507 answers

lol, your welcome :]

Answered by ifeelcrazy123 on Jun 18, 2009, 01:55AM
4944 answers

I see it as cheating. I'd consider it cheating if my boyfriend had phone sex with another girl.

but since you did it as a joke? I'd say in your case it isn't, but it is still disrespectful..

Answered by sexy_kitten on Jun 18, 2009, 01:14PM
24 answers

I think he has a right to get mad but he shouldn't stop you talking to someone. Its not like you actually had sex with the guy I mean cmon there was a phone between you.