Do you think my punishment is fair?

So my mother grounded me for three weeks and she took my phone for good all because I went outside on the porch and sat around in the middle of the night. I really think it's too much because I wasn't with anyone and I didn't leave my house but what do...

you think?

haha,
you wanna know what I think?
You need to get over it.
Who cares who thinks your punishment is to harsh? Its done.
Im guessing that no matter how many people agree its too harsh thats not going to change the fact that your grounded for 3 weeks and don't have a phone.

It sucks,
but its life
stop complaining dear,

I think she needs to see a doctor.

Personally, that is kind of an over exageration for a punishment. But everyone has different parental lifestyles, so to her, she might think it's fair.
Maybe she was worried something could have happened to you?
There must be some kind of logic for her punishment.
But, since I'm a kid as well, I know how much that would totaly suck. And how cruel that punishment is. =)

It kinda makes sense DEPENDING on the area that you live in. But it's still kinda extreme. She'll calm down and let you go like a week tops.

maybe ...
4 all she knows you were out running around and then came back 2 the porch
even though didnt happen still
it is pretty harsh though

Well just so you know I'm 15 and I live in a really good neighborhood.

are you exgerating the topic abit? did you have a fall out, and ignore her and run out and sit on the porch?
or is she strictly mentally ill?

Nopee, I'm not. My brothers were bothering me by waking me up every twenty minutes so I simply went outside to cool off.

well,I think she is over exatuarting a bit.
But if you treat her bad she could be fed up or just generally overwelemed (however its spelled) or stressed.
If your brothers bother you,they may bother her.
You should tell her how you feel.
Unless she is one of those mothers who will increase the punishment,tell her the whole story and if she already knows it then shes just strict.
But don't ever regret your mother or her decissions,she only wants what will help you out later and it could be much worst.
Your mother could abuse you or do things you wouldn't agree with.
Just remember that.goodluckk(:

Hell no thats not fair even if you would of left and you need your phone what happens if you woulda left the porch and got stolen or raped you be freaked with out a phone Soo thats Gay but my moms the same Way HELP NEEDED

Im sure what ever punishment that she gave you was for a good reason. I mean do you really think that you should have been out side any way that late. I think that yes that was fair. Think twice befor doing some thing that might make her cross with you and if I can help with any more questions feel free to fun mail me .
Yours truly,
Demika Ray

I dont think we're hearing the entire story... I dont think your mother is crazy... So she had her reasons... whatever they may be... if you actually feel like disclosing why she said she was grounding you (I.e. giving us a more balanced picture), then perhaps...

I can see how she could be worried if she caught you outside and didn't know the whole story, but ya, that's over the top

I think that's bulllshat your mom is that annoying.

No,no,no and no I alwaus stay until 2 in the morning and I never get grounded or my phone taken away you were on the porc I ws on the other syde of my town I came home at 2 in the morning and my mom was wide awake and didn't do anything to me and that sucks

no she was mean to you bad mom