Do you think it was my fault ?

yes you should have had sex with him it makes us happy

Ok hes a jerk for that but no its not your fault. You did the rite thing by not having sex with him because you didnt want to. You are only 13 and I think you are too young for sex. You seem to be setting your boundaries which is very mature at your age. I’d say forget him…let him go find someone who is willing to have sex with him. Im sure youll find someone else who will respect your wishes. And whatever you do…dont do it if you dont want to…even under any pressure.

GOOD FOR YOU, for standing up for what you believe in and he most likely would of left either way , even if you did have sex with him …you both are young and will have many “loves” …stay true to you and what you hold dear(your virginity) ..once its gone, you can never get it back.

I agree wit both of them… if your not ready then you dont do it its not your fault hes the one trying to make you do sumthing your not ready for you did the right thing