Do i stay or do i go?

I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost a year now, we arent technically together but thats the way we think of it... or at least I thought so. Lately things have been tense between us, and we both have been agravated with the way things are....

I love him with all my heart... and we have recently discussed the way things are between us. He apologized to me the other night for the way things are and said he doesnt want things to be like this. I asked what he wants and he said I dont know just not this. So I am left confused and concerned with doing what will make him happy... and then I found out another peice of news. He has been talking to this girl who lives in another state and she says she loves him. She sends him pictures all the time and they have been talking a lot. He has known her for a long time, but now it seems like hes starting to think about her more. I had thought that they were just friends but now I am not so sure. I know she lives in another state but still the idea of him being with someone else even if they are not here upsets me greatly. So I wonder do I wait it out and just keep seeing him, or do I let him go. Please I am so confused and unsure of what I should do. I dont want to lose him, but I also dont want to wait for him to want me if its really her that he wants. Thankyou

I think you KNOW what you need to do, but u.r afraid to lose him. my advice is DON'T be afraid. show him that u.r worth more than being a tag-along. if you stay, u.r gonna continue to feel hurt and confused. you HAVE to know somewhere deep down that it's NOT gonna get better. don't be a fool...