Distant and lonely

me and my girlfriend are happy with eachother...or soo it seemed. I love her so much and love being wit hher..but I feel distant and I am lonely...I have been really sad...I may have f*cked up a few times but I didn't mean to... she says she doesn't feel...

distant from me but I really feel it... it sometimes feels as if she is ashamed of me...she wont let me talk to her family either because I might make it worse..(I dont see how...) I cant live without her...I need her... but I am sad a lot...so many things are happening one after the other... what should I do?? I am losing sleep and becoming really depressed

hun I am going to tell you this but it may sound mean but I asure you it is for your own good. you dont need a girl to live. no guy needs a girl to live and no girl needs a guy to live. we just dont want to. you may need to emotionally back off a little. get some of your problems straightened out and things will seem a little brighter in your life. then when you are emotionally ready talk to her and tell her how you feel. maybe your scaring her a little because you are being a littl too emotionally pushy. my boyfriend and I are going through the same thing right now but its a little different. I cant stand him any longer. does she give you attitude all the time? hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

just tell her exactly how you feel.
have more serious conversations with her, tell her you need more from her emotionally. tell her you're depressed.
tell her how much you love her.
otherwise she isn't going to know how you feel.

otherwise you're better off finding another girl.
I know its hard but if the connection's not there sometimes these things just don't work out.

ok no she doesn't give me attitude, and she loves me back(she's told me). I have told her my feelings about being distant and such...she doesn't really say much back but get a little sad and just keep asking why instead of talking it out