What if he's showing my dirty picture to people?

Ok this is really hard for me to say, because I feel really bad about it, but anyway. One night I called my boyfriend to see what he was up to. His best friend Tom was there, so I didnt want to talk with him too long. Then when I was talking to my...

boyfriend Tom asked me for my phone number, so I gave it to him, not really thinking about it. He started to text me, and he said we should all talk, him, my boyfriend, and I. I said sure why not. We talked for about 3 hours and it was pretty fun acculay, but then Tom wanted a picture of my me naked. I didnt really want to, but I did anyway, he said he would delete it, and my boyfriend didnt really care, he wanted to see it too. I just found out yesterday that Tom didn't delete the picture, and he told my boyfriend he liked me, and he thought I was hot. He has been showing people the picture all around the school. We live in different cities, so I don't really know anyone he is showing the pictures to, but I feel like such a slut, I know I shouldn't have ever done that, but now that it is done, what am I supposed to do? sorry this is so long, if you have any more questions please ask, I probally didnt make the story that clear. Thanks for your time

Honestly I don't want to be mean but you deserved what you got. Now you need to learn from your mistakes and just learn to get over it. As hard as it is to think about what you did you need to rethink it and make some changes in your life. Your boyfriends friend is not the nicest person from what I'm hearing and I think you need to end your friendship. As for the realtionship with your boyfriend just in my opinion I think it's wrong that your boyfriend just let this happen. If he really truly cared for you he would have done something to stop this picture from getting out. Anyways it s a experience learn from it you made a mistake and now you gotta learn from it. Ask for him to delete the picture and hopefully he will anyways good luck

that really sucks... welll I don't think this will really help a lot but theres nothing you can do. you can ask him to delete it and stop being suck an as*hole but you've probably done that already and he didn't listen. so just keep in mind that things like this happen all the time. after a week or two it will all just blow over and people will move onto the next big thing. and if it's in a totally diffrent city I don't think you should worry about it to much. chances are no one you know is going to get it anyway.

All you can do in this situation is learn a lesson the hard way.

I would defintely consider that you continue to move on, and live with the mistake you made, it is ok, because we all make mistakes, it is just the factor of it we learn from our mistakes or not, good luck! :]

I would confront this guy - technically you can claim personality rights . It's a big deal - he made a verbal agreement to delete the photo and then did not. You could sue him if you wanted.

Also you're underage. Anyone who has a copy of the photo of you, could be in SERIOUS trouble. I would tell the dude to delete the photo (IN FRONT of you) or you're turning him in to the authorities for child pornography.

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Sika

Yep, he's showing it to everyone he knows, and people he doesn't know too. Don't rely on him deleting it in front of you. He could have already downloaded it or emailed it to his computer. Try not to do things like this again. You are probably already on the internet somewhere.

Let him have the wrath of god!! You dont SHOW people that! He needs to learn the hard way, just like you did, that his actions were wrong.