Dillema

I have a dilemma I guess you can call it:
I have fooled around with my boyfriend of 10 months multiple times, and my best friends are very uptight about that kind of stuff. if they found out I fooled around with my boyfriend, well lets just say it'd be strike 3. I don't get into bad things, and I've never lied to them about anything. but my boyfriend did tell a former (notice I said former) mutual friend about what we did. for the record, we didn't have sex. and my boyfriend thought it was appropriate to tell this friend because he fixed us up. I thought it was okay too until he got mad at us for something. anyways sorry im babbling but ill get to the point-- now this friend may tell my best friends about what we did... what should I do? im a horrible liar but if I tell them the truth then I might lose my best friends. thanks if you can offer any advice.

Your fine. Just dont give them details if they asl. If your friends are mad that they arent getting ass then you need better friends. Jealous bastards. Seriosuly, for a man to be with you 10 months congratz. Tell your friends to f**k off. Good luck !!!!

I don't agree with the first comment. If your 'Best' friends were really your best friends then they wouldn't judge you. What you have done with your boyfriend is you two's business and no others. What has been done, has been done. You have hormones it is a normal thing for two people to experiment. But just respect your body and don't do something you might regret or your not ready for.

'I don't agree with the first comment. If your 'Best' friends were really
your best friends then they wouldn't judge you. What you have done with
your boyfriend is you two's business and no others. What has been done,
has been done. You have hormones it is a normal thing for two people to
experiment. But just respect your body and don't do something you might
regret or your not ready for.'

Thats what I said..... that they arent really good friends if they are mad about this person doing things with her girlfriend.

I don't think you should have been fooling around with other people. I don't think that was right in the first place. I think that you shouldn't worry about what your friends think of yoy, I think you should worry about what your boyfriend is going to think of you. I think for one that you should go to your boyfriend and tell him everything. You shouldn't led your boyfriend on like that. Maybe you shouldn't have a boyfriend if you like fooling around with other guys. That must mean you have no respect for yourself or what other people feel. Maybe you should just think about what I just said for a little while.

Never mind forget what I said I read your thing wrong. You just be glad what you have. You shouldn't worry about what your friends think. I am sorry I thought you were meaning you fooled around with other guys, but if you were I gave you my opinion too. SORRY!!!!!!!!(LOL)

haha its okay that you read wrong... for the record though I didnt cheat on my boyfriend or anything. just thought id clear that up. the only thing im worried about is if they found out then theyd say I lied and didnt tell them. thanks for all the advice though everyone

Oh, I can relate so much to you.You can always deny itbut it doesnt always work. Ever sice my boyfriend and I have been fooling around (second and third base)I've realized I've been becoming less and less friends with these up tight people and more and more friends with the people who really dont care and think its cool im experienced. So, my advice is, find some friends who really dont care what you do with a guy, because in my opinion girl, if your in love, there is NOTHING keeping you away from getting all over your guy, NOTHING. And I know you know that. The problem is, your friends dont understand. Try your best to convince them, but it probably wont work.xoxoxoxo best of luck funmail me ud like