Dildo... haha..

okayy. I am not a w*hore.. at all and I have had sex but I dont have a boyfriend now and I like to wait before I have sex wiht the guy I am dating. To the point.. my friend bought me a dildo and I tried to use it but it hurts really bad. I havent had sex...

in about 6 months so that might be some part of it. I really want to use it. Any tips on making it hurt less?? I cant go out and buy lube. and my friend said to make myself wet first and I dotn really know how to do that. so maybe some tips on that too.. 3 Mo =]

ok first off don't use water. it's very.. like squeaky I guess like it doesn't just slide in smoothly lol. look around the house and see if you have aquaphor or any type of non-scented lotion. to make yourself wet you can try playin with your clit which is the ball like thing underneath the hood. if your dildo has a vibrater try putting it on the clit. it's amazing lol also I know it's harder for us girls to fantisize but it does help us get arroused and more wet. hope this helps!

Does it hurt because of it's size or, does it hurt because you might be dry..or both??

Well, I'm not a woman but, if I am going to use logic, I'd say get a smaller one. It's supposed to be a satisfying experience for you, not something that hurts. As for you being dry, try some lube or, maybe try to touch or rub in places you know feel good. I'm sure I didn't help much but, I hope I did.

Well then try some water or lube and go slow I guess. Good Luck...

This was the wrong question for a man to answer...

BUT, be slow and gentle with yourself, any lotion will work as a lubricant, and maybe even spit on your hand and wet yourself if it's just not working in the arousal area. Whatever works, works.

Best of luck!

water is not lube... it's kinda the opposite of lube... vaseline is generally a good lube... but it's not really going to feel good unless you're aroused... so whatever it takes to get you in the mood (fantasies, porn, touch yourself etc...)

I'm really tight, too. I inch it in slowly or if I'm feeling impatient, I use a lubricated condom. You can play with yourself with your fingers first so you get wet, that helps mobilize things a bit.