Did my wife cheat?

Did my wife cheat?
Although married and happy for 24 years, something happened recently that makes me wonder.
My wife who is 46 recently went on a business trip which she combined with a short stay with a friend who happens to live near the airport from...

which my wife flew home.
On the night before her flight my wife and her friend went out to bars and clubs for a drinking session, I tried to phone her all night and was only able to get her on her phone at 4.00am.
She sounded a little typsy and told me the strangest reason for being unreachable for so long, ststing that she and her friend had been out and that they hat met 3 men who offered to take them back to their hotel for a final drink.
to cut a long story short, her friend ended up in one guys room and my wife said she did not want to disturb her by asking for the keys to her appartment, so she said one of the other two guys kindly offered her his bed whilst he slept on a chair.
My gut instinct is that it's not all true, she swears it is, I dropped the matter and never mentioned it again, however, I would like to know peoples views, was it all innocent or did she spend the night doing other things?

If your 46 yo wife could have an adventure with two guys in one bed, you should congratulate her, and be proud of that how good woman is your wife. If that happened between them what you guess that should make your sex life better...if you have any...yammering is not sex-life..sex-life is f..ing..

bubux007....that is the worst advice ever.

hawkwind....I dont know what to say man. I really hope she was telling the truth. But trust is hard to build, and with the 24 years yall happily being together im sure yall build alot of trust.
You need to have a serious talk with her about it, and let her know that you will love her no matter what the answer (if you truly love her).

The only way to find out is to find out from her. If she was lieing then I don't know what i can say for you, people handle the situation different no matter what advice was given, I know from experience. But if she is truly sorry, its up to you.....i know it would probably hurt to see her everynight after hearing that, but you should give yourself a little space from her to let the reality sink in, the more you you adknowledge what happened, the less it will hurt. At this point the decision is yours...you can take her back and slowly regain that trust..or go down that other road.

I'm really wishing you the best of luck man

Dear Hawk,
You are going to drive yourself crazy with this one, because there is no answer to it other than what your wife told you. You and I are guys and we know how guys work, right?
If we were single, we met a hot lady out and told her You can stay at my place and I will sleep on the floor. Of course most every guy is hoping for more action. We as a guy know this..BUT women don't always understand this..They sometimes think the guy is just being accomodating, and he may be..but he would still love some action. This is why you are thinking what you are thinking.
Now here is what I think....If your wife really did cheat on you with this guy,she NEVER would have said ANYTHING about staying at his house and him sleeping in the chair so she can sleep in his bed. She would have said 25 different things. Think about it....
If you went out of town..had sex with some hot lady at a bar..got in at 4:00A.M.
and your wife asked you where you have been..Would you say anything about the lady you just had sex with???? NO WAY!!!! You would tell her you got a flat tire, or your phone went dead, or you got drunk and lost all track of time..and did not realize your phone went out etc....
Think about it....You just had sex with some lady..and your wife asks you where you were.
You are going to tell her you met a lady and because of how the night went etc..I ended up at her house and stayed there all night and she slept in the chair so I could have the bed???? No you would'nt. I think she is telling you the truth. You guys are just so close she did not think anything of it. The good news for you is that you have a wife who is not uptight..She goes out, has fun, talks and enjoys herself..and she is probably hot.
I would'nt worry about this..Take her out tonight and have fun with your loyal hot wife!!
Familycoach

No she didn't cheat on you, if she wanted to do that, she will do it without you even suspecting her... Women are smart and in these things smarter then men, so by mentioning this story to u then she's telling the truth... After all u know ur wife better and ur relation together so follow your heart in that...

IT DOESN'T MATTER. PEOPLE SCREW ALL SORTS OF PEOPLE AND IT ALL ENDS UP THE SAME AS LONG AS THEY DON'T GET A DISEASE. IT'S EASIER IF YOU DON'T KNOW. MY ADVICE TO YOU--DON'T TRY TO FIND OUT!

That would bother me too if my husband or boyfriend told me a story like that. Its reaally iffy. But I would just tell your wife if you are sneaking around, don't let me find out, because that would cause a lot of problems between us and our marriage, and I dont want that to happen.