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Did my boyfriend break up with me because he is confused with life or he doesnt love me anymore?

Asked by kempfesa over 2 years ago, 2 answers.
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I dated my boyfriend for 2.5 years when I entered my freshman year of college. my boyfriend was a sophomore at a college 45 minutes away from mine. we have always been deeply in love and each others best friends. we stayed completely together until this past october. I wanted a break from him because I felt in a rut. I was enjoying college life and the freedom it brought. I wanted to make sure he was the one. I broke up with my boyfriend in november after a pregnancy scare and lots of school stress. a week later, I started feeling the void he left. he was devasted by the breakup. in december we started hanging out together and eventually we kissed a few times. we decided that we would only take a break from each other so that we could heal, I wanted to get back together soon, but he kept telling me he needed time. at the end of january we got back together. I knew he had failed 2 classes from his first semester classes and was on academic probation. he also had to start paying for his classes which left him broke. he spent the first 2 weekends with me at my college and we had a really good time together. we talked about what happened this past fall, and how much we really did appreciate and love each other. I surprised him for valentine's day. he was really excited and we spent an awesome night together laughing and cuddling. the morning comes and he is all sweet until I dropped him off at his class. he was silent and didn't want to talk. two days later he called me and told me he isnt in love with me and he added that we got back together too soon. I was once again really hurt. I found out a few days later that he had failed 2 exams that week and was most likely going to fail out of college. since the break our conversations are just like when everything was perfect. he is flirty, sweet, and energized. he is now out of college due to grades and is extremely upset. my mom tells me that he just needs time to sort things out, and that he broke up with me because he is depressed with life. he has always hated his college and was socially isolated in his apartment this year. all of our friends have noticed a change in his behavior the past few months. I still am in love with him and I dont know what to do. I know I need to give him time to fix his life and I'm willing to give him time if thats what he needs. I just love him so much. help me please!!

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Jeremy Goodrich yep, that's me Answered by thedude on Mar 23, 2006, 12:39AM
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Well, if he's worth it, then it's worth waiting for him to get his stuff in order. I went through similar with my wife, and we're still together & doing well. Good luck.

Answered by sarah78 on Mar 23, 2006, 06:42PM
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Hey
I know all of this stuff is confusing and hurtful.
I think you should tell your man how you feel, that you love him and want to be with him, and that you believe in him.
Maybe he just needs to hear that someone really loves him and supports him. Its possible your mom is right, and telling him your feelings just might make him understand that you should be together.
Good Luck

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