Did I do wrong?

can I get your opinions PLEASE ... this is the situation I was with my boyfriend yesterday at my house we were chilling , I have to admit im a lil stubborn but anyways so yesterday I didnt feel good at all & I have a few family problems going on and work was a drag but anyways my guy and I were watching some TV and I made him some toast brought him some milk and I even took his shoes off!!!! then we watched a movie and it was cool so then hes like I have chips in my car lets go get them .. im like um its ok you go ... the damn car was like rite in front my house ( in my drive way ) mind you it was SUPER COLD !!! he was like go with me stand by the door. Im like No ill stay in ill wait for u .. so whatever 5 min of back and forths... so I ended up going by the door ( it was closed so I was still inside ... I didnt see nothin bad . So anyways then he wanted water .. I was like hold on .. so maybe like 15 min passed and he reminded me and im like ' o sh** sorry' and I got his water with ice like he likes it and I brought him an extra water bottle just in case. So anyways we were cool and then like he finished the water and hes like ' can you serve me more water ' I was like ' um your rite next to it so you can do it urself' he was so persistant about it asking me are you sure? are you sure your not going to serve me water ? I was like im sure because you are next to it !! So that when it all went down he didnt want to hold my hand he was all quiet and all pissed off. I was just like ok whatever ... so then we were still there and like 45 min later he was like I gotta go ... so then he got up and walked toward the door and didnt even say bye or kissed me . I followed him outside and still no words came out of his mouth.. whatever I thought; I stood there til he left and then I called him and he was babling about what I did and that I never do anything for him .. I was like : you are overweighing the bad to the good . what about the other things I did ? and hes like thats why I didnt want to say anything to you because you always want to argue .. im like ok whatever this is not that serious - im not going to serve you everything in a silver platter and thats when all hell broke loose.. in other words he wants me to apologize for this , which im not .. because I dont think I did anythin bad. so then he tm me sayin that when im finally ready and saw what I did to call him .. I tm him back sayin im your girlfriend not your slave ... ( according to him I need to do things that come from the heart - which I do ) so what should I do ?? he wants to get engaged but I dont want to with attitude, he is making me feel like I need to be on my hands and knees for him all the time ... F*** that im not his wife yet , and thats sthing he needs to realize , and even when im his wife its a 50/50 thing I cant do everything just because im the WOMAN ... I tell him all this but he dont get it ... I need help PLEASE

you did NOTHING wrong. of course, I don't know the guy, but if he's as high maintenance as he sounds, it can't be a fun relationship for you. he can't expect you to be his slave. if he is going to get this upset about something so little how would he handle a more serious situation? marriage is full of compromise and there are always problems and if he can't handle THAT then how can he possibly handle marriage? I don't know what you should do but if this is a frequent thing, it wouldn't be worth it to me to stay in a relationship like that. hope everything goes okay!

Telling ya now, it's going to get worse. He wants someone to wait on him hand and foot and he's only going to get even more demanding once you're married. My suggestion would be to seek counseling to try to get him to see you as a partner instead of a servant. If he won't agree to that (and honestly he probably won't) then I'd move on.

Ask him to put himself in your shoes! Seriously your his girlfriend not his slave or his mommy. To be an ass, I'd buy a dog collar and next time your with him put it on and call him master. Maybe he'll get the idea.

If you really like him I'd try to work it out somehow but if this has been an ongoing problem... I'd ditch him.

well I kind of no what you feel im always the victim in the relationship my boyfriend is in control well hes a muslim and hes arabic so hes kind of sexist we wanted to get engaged too he used to ask me to do things theres been incidents where hes demanded it and I've basicly said dont talk to me like that im not your slave and just dont give into it hes just being selfish dont contact him till he contacts you n dont apologise.