How can I get him to last longer in bed?

I LOVE MY BOYFRiEND..AND SEX iS SOMETHiNG..I UHMM LiVE FOR [LOL]..LiKE iLL TiE HiM UP..BLiNDFOLDS...ALL THAT STUFF.AHHH..JUST THiNKiN ABOUT iT//ANYWAY..HE KiNDA CANT GO FOR A LONG TiME[LESS THAN 10MiNUTES] AND iT JUST RUiNS EVERYTHiNG..MY FiRST TiME WAS 2 YEARS AGO..WiTH HiM AND iT WAS 3 MiNUTES!?!..HE WAS HAViNG SEX BEFORE THAT TOO WiT 2 PREViOUS G/F'S...I LOVE HiM I DO..BUT iTS RUiNiNG OUR RELATiONSHiP.. LiKE SOMETiMES I JUST want to LAY THERE AND BE LiKE ALRiGHT JUST GET iT OVER AND DONE WiTH...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP MEEE ='[

Hmm have you talked to him about how you feel? Is it easy to talk about how you feel to him in general? Communication is key to any successfull relationship. I suggest being as honest as you can about how you are feeling, like: 'I love you, and you totally turn me on, and I wanted to talk about some things with you about our sex life' hopefully that will open the door for you to tell him how you feel. Maybe more foreplay, not just in the bedroom right before you have sex will help? Maybe a sexy date night where dress up is involved? Try and keep things interesting. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both people, and if he loves you as much as you care for him he should and will want to make sure you are climbing the walls. Hope this helps!!!

If the duration of intercourse is 'ruining your relationship' like you say... then you don't have much of a relationship at all...

get him to wear a condom. he'll last longer,

WE DO USE CONDOMS && iTS NOT RUiNiNG iT..iT JUST SUCKS SO BAD BECAUSE I LOVEEEE iTTT...N I THiNK iTS iMPORTANT..AND I HAVE TALKED TO HiM ABOUT iT..BUT I WOULD NEVERRRRR EVERRR LEAVE HiM B/C OF THAT I LOVE HiM TOO MUCH..I don't know..I THOUGHT MAYBE THERE WAS A TRiCK OR SUMSHYT [LOL] FORGET iTT..