Dating older men

I'm 19 years old and have been dating older men for about a year now. I've dated four different men between 31 and 42, and each has been amazing!!! They were all attractive and no kids or wives, and I tend to be very mature and intelligent for my age....

I seem to have so much more in common with them than guys my own age and the sex is SOOOO amazing-- and btw, I always initiated the sex so I know they weren't just after my bod.
The guy I'm dating now seems to be getting sort of serious. I'm sure I love him but I wonder if a ltr with someone almost twice my age will cause other problems-- family, friends, job, and so on.
Has anyone else had a similar experience with dating older guys? If so, how did it turn out?
Thanks!

I haven't had this type of experience but I have friends that have. I think that it's always a bit hard on the relationship when there is a big age difference because poeple will always judge you and you might not want the same things.

My friends usualy had a bit of a tough time telling their parents or being accepted by some of their friends as a legitamite couple. Of course in the end, you're the one that has to live with your couple, not them them. I think that if you are happy with someone and they give you what you need you should definitly try it out but you have to be realistic about it.

Dating someone older can be a bit alienating because not everyone in your social circles will be kind and accept you. Also, you have to think about the long term. Do you want children? Does he? What about them having an extremely older father? Are you willing to give up having children just to be with a man? Obviously the chances are you will live longer then he, what then? These are things that definetly have to be seriously adressed if you guys really want to be serious on the long term because they will determine your happiness and either make or break the couple.

The age gap needs to be adressed but it doesn't mean it can't work out. Both of you have to be understanding about what both of you need and the stuff you are up against. (ex.: he might what to settle and you travel, he might want kids and you not, you might want to study and hang out with younger friends, will he be jealous? etc..)

As for how did it turn out? A million ways. Some have married and have no children but are happy. Some have left because they wanted children and couldn't. Some have children and don't mind having to bring them up on their own latter. Some broke up because they didn't want the same things. Some are taking it one a day at a time and seeing how it goes.

Good luck and be happy!

Hey I am 32!! .....but I don't think my wife will let me date you. You sound pretty cool though. Yes we older guys are better at sex because we have had a lot more of it. Experience does help. Just remember that he might be 50 when you are reaching 30, so the sex will go downhill at that point.

Thanks for your input guys! We both want kids fairly soon, so that shouldn't be a problem. His friends obviously all think it's cool that he has a hot 19 year old chic. My friends are fascinated by it. Both our families don't like it, but neither of us are very close to them anyway.
But the sex at 50 thing I never really thought about.. (actually I'll be 33 then) Can't most men have sex now into their 60's or 70's with Viagra?

Hi, I am an older man who had several younger g/fs. My experience says that if the age difference more than 12 y, it may generate problems later. The exception is that case when the older man becames a little bit father, and lets his youger g/f (wife) being free and keep other relationship. I mean, this may come in 10-15 ys.

Glad to be of help. Sounds like you guys are really serious already and have already adressed some of the issues discussed above. As for sex, most men can have sex at 60 and 70. Of course, this all depends on their health. I have a friend who has two children with a 65 year old and he is probably more energetic then me (I'm more then half his age!)! Either way, a long term couple will come across many obsticles so you might as well adress them as they come. There is no way you can possibly imagine your sex life in 20 years or if you'll even be together. I think you should work on the issues facing you now in order to make your relationship healthy and strong, that way when hard times come you'll be up to finding solutions together. Good luck!

P.S.: People usualy get used to the age gap with time, so don't worry too much about the family thing.

if you're happy you're happy. age ain't nuthin but a number