Dating a girl whos been raped and I dont know wht to do

ok I like this girl who was raped and she wants to have sex but I dont want to do any thing that will offend her or get her upset I mean I've giving her squirting orgazams and she feels really good and she wants to have sex but I dont b/c of wht happened to her and she broke up with me b/c I wouldnt have sex with her and shes REALLY mad and I love her I just dont want to bring up any bad memorys please someone help me

okay..well maybe you should tell her how you feel about this.. shell never no why unless you tell her why u wouldnt.. she cant get mad at you 4 telling her the truth!! I mean you need to tell her you love her..and if she walks away out of your life then thats when you no you deserve better

I don't think she is going to get mad at you 2 having sex if she really wants to. getting raped is when you are forced to have sexual encouters with another person, actually wanting to have sex is completely different.

I know how you must feel, but when you flat out refuse to have sex with her, she takes that to mean that you don't find her attractive. If she really wants to do it, then you should. Just be gentle and passionate about it and she should be fine.

It would seem to me that she is comfortable with you enough to want to have sex with you, granted what happened to her in the past will always be with her but if you are gentle and kind I am sure it will work out