Dating?

okay...it has been 2 years
since I've gone out with anybody
and I have feelings for this girl
that I'm really close to
and I don't have a clue what to do
please help me out
I want to be with her...its just I don't want to
lose her as a best friend
casue you know how relationships end
the two people would avoid each other
and I don't want that

You're just going to have to take the plunge and go for it.

And remember love is not perfect.

It can be the most beautiful thing in the whole world and it can also be the most heart-breaking painful experience you will ever have. Its just something youre going to have to deal with dont feel bad if it doesnt work out.

Do you have any idea how many people are constantly breaking up at this moment??? MILLIONS!!! people love and hate all the time and cannot even get a real grip on what they want out of life its just all a big fantasy to them. Makes me want to jump off a cliff and die, I'm sick of people playing games with eachother. But thats just reality deal with it we live in a sick world with sick people.

Dear biggi3,
As we get older the dating game changes. We know we need to become friends with someone first then if we feel there may be a fit we continue to dating. But this does come with the dilemma of dating your friend and loosing them if things don't work out. This is why love lives are complicated. Is she waiting for you to say something, are you waiting for her to say something? What to do? So you say something and she doesn't feel the same and now she is uncomfortable with your friendship or you say something and she is happy and pleased to take it to the next level. At your age chances are this is not going to be your life partner and you will continue to date others. Knowing this what do you do? You weigh the odds and make a choice based on what you know. Taking it to the next level...what does it mean...I would suggest just leaving things the way they are for the time being. There isn't a hurry and only fools rush in as they say.
Sue...good luck