Dating

Me and my man were unafissouly dating for 2 months. He is about 5 years older and I may have not been able to do everything that he does with him. Every weekend we would hang out with everyone and depending on the weekend I would spend the night with him. One weekend I went out to go hang with a few friend during the day and then I would call him and he would come get me and we would hang out. I ran into him during the day and he promised that we would hang out and he would come by after lunch. The day went by and I called him but his friend answered and told me to *** off. He was my ride home and I needed one so I ended up with some of my other friends. We were going to go see some people then go back to my place where we would meet up with more people. The people that they had to see ended up being the guy I was seeing. I guess he didn’t like that I was in the car with his friends. I ended up getting man handled and the only person who stood up for me was the driver of the car not even my best friend did anything. He ended up coming to my house and apologising and saying he would never do it again. we continued seeing each other for about a week before I couldn’t get a hold of him. He went 3 weeks with out calling me before he called me one day to ask me if I had herpes. I had had a miscarriage the day before he called and I never told him that….(he was the father). He apologised and gave me 3 numbers that I could get a hold of him at and that he wants to see more of me. I have tried to call the numbers but I still haven’t been able to get a hold of him for about a week. I never told him about the miscarriage and I think I should but I cant get a hold of him. I really like him and I don’t want any other guy but him, I know I can get other guys and I would have no problem moving on but I still really like him. What should I do?

First, you need to keep in touch with him and find out what is up with him. You should tell him about the miscarriage and find out how he feels about it. Just ...ADD ME AND ILL EXPLAIN MORE... = ]

Coming from an adults point of view, you need to dump him. You've only been with him for 2 mos, and already your having problems! You are making him a priority, when you are only his option! He doesnt care about you, and his actions prove that! The fact that he man-handled you explains the true character of this guy. That should be a red flag for you. He did it once, he'll do it again...guaranteed! Let me guess, your giving him sex...this so-called relationship sounds very immature, if in fact its a relationship at all! Sorry, but I know guys like him, and I know girls like you who stand by & defend them, but in the end the girl is the one who gets the broken heart. The fact that he is 5 years older, only shows how naive you are about whats really going on here. If this guy liked you in the right way, he wouldn't disrespect you the way he does, and if you keep taking it, hes only going to keep doing it!

Hey just forget about him. I'm serious when I say nothing good will come from you being with this guy. he is not going to change for you or anybody else. there's no need in telling him about the misscarriage. it will only further complicate things. he might think you made it up. I think you should write him off. hey dont worry you are super-cute so you wont be single if you dont want to be.