How to move on?

People always say move on. But just how exactly do you 'move on'??
Or say forget it. How? When you know it's always in the back of your mind.
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What other choice do you have? Unless you want to sit there and feel sorry for yourself which wont get you anywhere.
You just have to keep telling yourself that its out of your hands. Its always going to be in the back of your mind, but you cant let it consume you.

Don’t fall into the trap of viewing your entire relationship in terms of it being a total failure. Life is all about successes and making mistakes and no relationships, even the most successful ones, are ever free from mistakes. The ending of a relationship is often an important stepping stone to discovering what it is you want and don’t want out of any future relationship and it gives you the opportunity to discover more about yourself and how you might approach a relationship differently next time around.

And You Do Have A Future. There will be a ‘next time’ and another relationship to look forward to. It’s crucial that you don’t simply get stuck in the past grieving constantly over your former relationship. Once you’ve got the grieving process out of the way you should start to set some fresh goals in your life and take manageable steps towards achieving them.

As you start moving forward, you should be looking to gain a total acceptance of who you are as a person, what lessons you have learned from the relationship, take any positive steps in terms of setting new goals and maybe even change your attitude and approach to relationships. Work through these issues gradually until you are satisfied that you have got rid of any remaining emotional baggage so that you don’t take that into any other relationship or else that might end in failure too.

you do other things to keep that one thing you're trying to move on from OFF of your mind. hang out with close friends, go out, date, watch man vs. wild.. just do things that help you stay positive and know that things will always get better. you'll eventually realize that the thing you're trying to forget, wasn't worth all the time you've spent crying/thinking/sulking over it.

That's ^^ really helped me too angelfire2708 =]

That's all about it ^^ when it comes to moving on. You have to keep your mind totally focused on something else. Imagine how many relationships there are going to be.. this one may have been the worst, may have been the best but it's not your last. 2008 is a great time to leave all that happened behind and you have to move on.

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Do other things to keep your mind busy... go shoping or go hang out with friends...clean do whatever...have fun you need to move on in order to find the true love that is out there for you.. dont just let it pass by... by hangin on to someone that you can never be with.

just dont think about it.

Hang out with me more!
Anddd! We still gotta egg their house, member?
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whot do you mean...ummm...LOST HERE!!!

try to think other things like your interest. keep yourself busy and in that case your mind won't keep wondering around him in that case you'll start forgetting about him you'll find yourself moving on in no time.

true me and my boyfriend just broke it off,and im so hurtin.11 months and its over.I took a shower with my clothes on the other day! in the shower usually I spend 15 minutes.yesturday I spent 2 hours straight sitting in the shower cryin,with my clothes on letting them soak.crying non-stop.so yeah imma come back everyday.How can you just drop sumthing so hurtful and so shocking.,just like that?