First talk to your mom, and tell her how you feel. Then have her tell your dad you would like sometime alone with him. Or you could call him on the phone and talk that way. When the step parent is not around. Step families are the hardest thing ever. My mom was married 4 times and I have 5 step brothers and sisters. It can be very rough to deal with. But you have to do something now or it won't change.
I think you should speak directly with your father... What could be worse than having the uncertainty that he may or may not want to spend some quality time alone with his daughter right? The best thing you could possibly do is find a way to let him know how you feel about him and his wife. Maybe it's something that he also notices but doesn't know how to approach you about it. You should also let him know that you are uncomfortable with the way your stepmother treats you. Well I hope this helps ;-)
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Dad issues please help...:(
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ok wellmy mom and dad got divorced when I was 3 andnow I'm 14 so Its not that bad anymore...but ever since my dad got remarried and had 2 other chirdlen he never wants to bother with me...I used to c him eveyr weekend and tiesday but then I started...
school and I didn't go with him then . then I went with him every weekend then everyother weekend. then after his second child (my 2nd stp sis) he only took me everyother Sunday now he only takes me the frost Sunday of every month...
for Xmas he like forgets about me. he only will get me a shirt and lip gloss but he gets my stp siss like a lot of things. on my birthday he didn't even call me or get me anything (I'm NOT selfish I just thought 10 or 20$ in a card wouldn't hurt) my stp mom hates me. she will never let me and my dad go newhere alone. when he comes to pick me up (a 20 min. drive) she always comes and it's not like he takes me newhere. when he picks me up all we do is go to his house and it suxx..do you even think I should go with go with him anymore?? how can I tell him that I just wanna b with him and not my stp mom? please help...sorry it's so long...(I btw I'm afraid to ask him if we can go newhere w/o my stp mom and I don't know y...) how can I tell him?? please help