Dad! :(

my dad left me and my mom when I was born, and I really want to have a relationship with him, I have talked to him many times, and have made plans to meet up with thim, but something always comes up, and he cant come, it always feels like he has...

something better to do, it always seems like he doesnt care about me, and his mom, and dad. my grandparents are activly in my life, if that makes since. how do I tell him I want to get to know him, and talk to him more, with out it being weird.

if I were you I would just say it, you want to know him better, be with him more, he should eventually understand and hopefully you can spend more time with himm

does your mum know you r in contact with him? because there might of been a reason he left and she could b uncomfortable with it x

good luck x

Just tell him that's the only way he's going to know and it won't sound weird because you're his child. Talk to your grandparents about how to handle it, they probably understand him better and can let you know why he's acting this way.

Good luck

I would just tell him. It won't be weird you are his child. You should have the right to get to know him and talk to him more. Tell him that you feel like he doesn't care about you and that it seems like he always has something better to do. I agree with colethky talk to your grandparents and tell them how you feel too. They can give you ways to go about telling him everything. good luck I hope everything works out for the best!

I know that kinda story exactly...my biological dad...he left my mom before I was born. I've met him once. Nothing to big of a deal. I've talked to him very little. His family knows nothing about me. So basically I know he doesnt want to b a part of my life. If I could tell him how I felt though...id tell him that I care and that he should care enough to try and be there. Things like this are never easy. Luckily...sometimes its for the better