Is it bad to be curious about sex?

Asked by fau 8 months ago, 24 answers.

okay...
so I'm 15...
and I'm most definitely saving sex for marriage...
but I'm kinda curious...

is that bad?

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Answered by hotstuff2066 on Nov 13, 2007, 07:03PM
| 20 answers.

No thats not bad...most people so save there self for marriage.

Answered by haileybre on Nov 13, 2007, 07:07PM
| 487 answers.

no... like... I'm curious about sex.

Answered by jackatk on Nov 13, 2007, 07:44PM
| 20 answers.

Go for it,
you only have
1 life live it,
marrital sex isnt the
same as premarrital.
it doesnt make you a bad
person or anything of that
sort

Answered by funadvice on Nov 13, 2007, 07:47PM

Its not bad that you're curious about sex, even though you want to save yourself for marriage. In fact, being curious about sex is perfectly normal and common. Even at 15.

Answered by visiontech on Nov 13, 2007, 08:41PM

Most girls your age are very curios about sex thats normal, I think that is awsome that you are saving sex for marriage, sex is a BIG responsibility, your just a kid yourself dont risk your chances of getting pregnant your young and you deserve to be able to do everything you want in life. graduate college and high school go out with friends without worrying about having a babysitter for your baby or worrying whether or not you got an std from your boyfriend. sex is a big step you should really think about it before you do it.

Answered by randyo on Nov 13, 2007, 09:05PM
| 709 answers.

It's not bad to be curious. But just remember, not to act on your curiosity. Curioosity killed the cat.

Answered by 03phenom on Nov 13, 2007, 09:10PM
| 4 answers.

You and me both. I find its easier to stick to your views when you know theres someone else doing the same thing. you're a rare one. stick to it. Im sure it would be much more rewarding to wait, and do it with that very special person, rather than to latch on to the next boyfriend you have. life is precious. and there are plenty of other ways to enjoy life.
so as an answer to your question, no. its not bad. its good. and its nice to see that there are still others out there that stick to their values. you're quite gorgeous. dont take a chance that might affect your life in a seriously bad way.

Answered by livininthefastlane on Nov 13, 2007, 10:27PM
| 26 answers.

I agree with randyo..curiosity killed the cat!! There is nothing wrong with being curious, but sex comes along with many emotional factors and if you have sex at a young age, you may not be ready for all that comes along with it.

Answered by vanja on Nov 14, 2007, 05:09AM
| 53 answers.

NO,ITS NOT BAD!!!

Answered by funadvice on Nov 14, 2007, 08:59AM

No, but there's a fine line between being curious and having impure thoughts.

Answered by bubux007 on Nov 14, 2007, 09:45AM
| 2325 answers.

It is not bad, but you cannot do else than to watch that how other people are making s*x.

Answered by haileybre on Nov 14, 2007, 08:22PM
| 487 answers.

I'm not going to do it...
and I'm not having impure thoughts

Answered by lauren69 on Nov 18, 2007, 12:42PM
| 89 answers.

your frustrated.

Answered by funadvice on Nov 22, 2007, 10:29AM

'Impure thoughts' are a debate in itself...

Its okay to be curious, and its normal especially at your age. All your primal reproductive subsystems are activating.

This is when your covenant becomes more challenging. Keep it up...

Answered by kmgelt on Dec 14, 2007, 07:09AM
| 4 answers.

it is ok to be curious about sex its natural and at your age I was I have sex now with the man I'm going to marry and it is the best but that does mean anything just hold yourself if thats what you want to to but if you decide to change your mind about it then just make sure he is rappin it up so you cant get STDs or anything else

Answered by nicole_dawn on Dec 16, 2007, 11:53AM
| 547 answers.

not really.. im your age, but if the time comes and even though you aren't married, just do it.. life's too short to wait for the one because some people never find them.

Answered by funadvice on Dec 20, 2007, 07:12PM

***life's too short ***

I've never agreed with that. Seriously, its the longest thing you'll ever do!

Answered by sikashimmer on Dec 20, 2007, 09:05PM
| 3535 answers.

Curiosity killed the cat ...but he had 9 lives.

Answered by funadvice on Dec 21, 2007, 11:18PM

***Curiosity killed the cat ***

...or 'deflowered' the cat.

Answered by crazygurl4 on Jan 08, 2008, 07:35AM
| 23 answers.

no

Answered by melissa_kathleen on Jan 19, 2008, 10:45AM
| 51 answers.

It is perfectly normal to be curious about sex. Sex seems so forbidden and tabu that it's hard NOT to be curious about. My freshman year in College, I knew maybe 3 or 4 people who were still virgins, and I was friends with a LOT of people. Sex is a WONDERFUL thing- but definately wait until you're ready. A lot of people say they'll wait until they're married, but facing the facts, that just doesn't happen very much anymore. If you do decide to act on your curiousity, make sure you are being responsible about it. I lost my virginity my Junior year of highschool, and guess what? I ended up getting married to the same guy I lost my virginity too! Don't waste it on some one night stand, or a drunken horny spree.