What is up with this situation?

I cant help it im married and really been out of love for a lonfg time cant help it I never thought the day would come in hell that id ever really like any one not me o god no,, but it happened and the guy I met is my daughters freinds dad when we first met we couldnt wait to talk when wed see each other and the flirting wow but are you married of course I couldnt lie,, but heck he aske d us over any ways we came over and it was all nice but I talked from my car which we talked for an hour then I left came back to pick uo kids and we after that when wed c each other at the park it was just a starring game ,, then wed get the talking once in awhile but id hear comments like your mom looks nice shes cute and so on ,, but its as if we were afraid to get to close ,, tension tension then after the sports school starts and the girls started on and off talking more and more and then the spending the nights became more frequent and when my daughter would go there hed make comments on my hair liike how nice it is im pretty soo onnn,,, now over the winter the girls were getting pretty tight and finally he just grabbed my daughters cell phone and insisted to talk to me ok she said so we talked for an hour and he finally got the courage to ask me over for dinner you could tell he was nervouse I said ok why not my daaughter said he was in a hurry to shower and all and in the bathroom for a long time didnt no why didnt no I was comming but what a shock when I did come in she was happy ,, it was nice a little flirtatious on more his behalf but I held my cool heck dont want to flant what I really feel ..so we made a lot of plans on the sports with the kids how wed like to run it and about possibly keeping the girls all together and coaching are selves , so the next following week my daughter asked me in they all wanted to c me so I did when I dropped off her clothes,, and it was all nice but for once I was really nervouse and I looked at the tv and said to my kid wow look at the cute guy on tv wow thats a man woo hoo,, joking and I think he was mad at the fact I thought one of the coaches was a pretty nice man and I had no proublems with him cause I guesse he dont like himmm anyways all of the sudden he starts singing beeners beeners oo guesse what I asked this girl out and gave her my number with a weird look o kids looks like ull be seeing her around I was like what the heck and here I was just telling him I got fired from a hispanic women omy god its like whats up with this but I wrote it off and 15 later I was polite and said I had too go my daughter said she was going to stay,, bad move cause the next day I guesse he heard her and a freind talking and heard her say a swear which I dont condone but why would he be listening and so then he got kind of mad and lectured on it ok then other things I guesse came up and they both got on the wrong foot nothing major,, then I guesse he was going to a freinds house who needed some support cause of a divorce and when the daughter begged him can my daughter come he was like well I cant take a chance on her comming she might swear I cant take a chance so my daughters like well take me home , matter of fact ill call my mom and I probly wont spend the night here no more after my mom heres this of course his daughter was upset and was like o no please dont say that so they dropped her off and then I called her freind and said im not to happy with your dad hes mean and cheap and ill never let her spend the night again , I no cusing is wrong but he nos she does once in a while and and she was corrected by him about it so whats up with him being a jerk about it im thinking to myself and I was angry thats why I called when my daughter told me this,,, my daughter has always been respectfull to him you no really ,, well his daughter called back and was like your mom is really mad I guesse we cant hang out now of course my daughter was like I dont no but nice to her freind,,, so a week went bye and ash would talk to her here and there and then 2wks later they talked again and the girl told my daughter her dad aint mad no more and he wants to no if ash wants to be on his team and my daughters like maybe ok well see but here for the last 2 weeks this girl was so moody stuck up freindly then not freindly I couldnt believe she asked my daughter about being on her dads team,, well after that the girl still seemed moody and would ignore my daughter in the halls and wait for her other freind my daughter is like whats up with that I dont get it then her freind would call when my daughter is on the bus , and the nmy daughter would call her back and she would be like I cant talk now im busy kind of weird ,, so now 3 in a half weeks later on the day of pitching practice shes all freindly with my daughter that day at school and when her and her dad showed up for it I was shocked because they normally dont go to that and she was all freindly and nice like whats this all these weeks shes been a mood swinging weirdo with a stuck up attitude and can only talk when it felt good for her I thought it was wrong ,, so I guesse she asked my girls if I hated her and I think shes starring at me and she hates me so my daughter told me this I was like hay you dont hear from her for 3 weeks and you tell me shes been acting like shes too good .. im mad a little so then my younger daughter goes by the girl and she said to go away your mom hates me and dont want you to play with me ,,, so I look over and said hay I like you but ever since the thing at your house you have been acting kinda mean to my daughter and not calling her and when she would attemp to call you ud be to busy and ignoring here going off too classes with your other freind ,, so I dont hate you just sticking up for my daughter you guys can play,, she looked at me like shocked and mad ... so then two days later friday they were getting along at school sorta and I thought ok lets be nice call your girlfreind up and c if she would like if I picked her up and bring her over for cake and to hang out with ash and a freind and no it wasnt a big party and no we told her no gifts ,, so we asked her she was like ok let me ask my dad he was like no but happy b-day ok ,,, then the girl calls us back which you could hear her father in the back round tell ashly maybe tommorrow she can come over to are house and hang out, and then all use can go tyo the movies with her mom which I had planned on doing but then they tell my daughter this were going to be real busy so maybe ,, any ways we called her back the next day and we asked if she still wanted to hang out and go to the movies my daughter noticed and I did to she wasnt very responsive wouldnt really talk kind of weird ,, shes like im lying down ya wright this girl lying down at 11 am , shes not like that so then we hear her dad saying something about how busy they are and there not sure so then my daughter said well call later when you can ,, you no they usually make time for my daughter and I no they had basket ball and a few things to do but usually they would ask ash to go with so whats up with this and heck why did they call up noing thed be busy the next day ... whats up with this situation really

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Dear mommy39,
I tried to read through your question but it was a tad confusing to say the least. I can only guess you are very involved with your daughters life. I'm not saying that is a bad thing but getting involved with one of their father's isn't a good idea. Teaching your daughter to be strong and handle her own minor troubles would be a good idea. I say minor because what I can gather...these girls are acting like young teens do and usually they work it out themselves. Ask your daughter how she wants to handle the situation and you stay out of it. I know that may be hard for you but some times they know better then we do when dealing with their friends.
Sue...good luck