When I have an orgasim it's an over flow of fluids, what is this?

when I have an orgasim it's like a waterfall, my girlfriend says it's not normal . We use toys and the clit massager always gives me an over flow of fluids. Is this c*m or urine? or perhaps both? She is afraid to provide me with oral sex because of it, what should I do?

carol

Dear crazy_waterfalls,

Women lactate, men ejaculate, or so the old saying goes. Turns out some women, maybe most women, actually do both. Reports of women experiencing a gush of fluid at org**m go back many centuries, but it's only fairly recently that (Western) science has taken these stories seriously.

The fluid comes through the urethra, but NOT from the bladder. Many still explain away the fluid some women eject from the urethra at climax as urine resulting from momentary loss of bladder control. While this might occur in a very small number of women, it does not explain the experience shared by somewomen: the fluid doesn't look like urine, doesn't smell like urine, and it has been proven in many chemical analyses that it is not urine. These women produce a small amount of clear fluid which has only trace amounts of uric acid; this indicates the fluid comes through the urethra, but does not come from the bladder. Chemically the fluid is very similar to the fluid from the male prostate.

Sue....good luck

What you are experiancing (gushing) as Sue indicated is only recently becoming a subject of interest. It is on the erotic side of making love. Not to be feared or given too much concern. It does require that your sexual activities be in a way and place that will not ruin furnature etc. Woman I have talked with that experiance it have mixed feelings, from extreme pleasure to extreame embarasment. You asked if it is c*m or urin or both as Sue pointed out it is neither. My question, yet to be satisfactorilly answered is. Where is it stored and why is it that only some woman experiance it and at tha only at unpredictable times. Would your girlfriend eat you out after you pee and wipe well? sure.

Sorry, I have been corrected, I calle it gushing and am informed that it is called 'Squirting'. not that it makes that much difference but for your further research try 'squirting'?

All you'r partner has done to you is make you have a squirting orgasim. I had the same thing happen to me so I got on google and looked up squirting orgasim, or how to make a women have a squirting orgasim and it brought up so much information that I never knew, even about my own body. You really should look it up, it'll answer a lot of you'r questions