Crazy mom

hey my mom is very crazy and I've been trying to find some help for a very long time. im 16 and my mom makes me clean all day and she has a gambling problem which means I have to stay home with the boys and watch them and cant go nowherew. when she loses...

she comes home and take her anger out on me and my lil sister and makes us clean and take our phones! we cant go nowhere and if we do its a holiday or bday or some special occasion. she gets viloent at times. she calls me bad names and its so stressin and depressing I've thought about suicide and I cant do anything but just cry eat and pray. I also talk to my boyfriend about them and hes sick of them tyoo but theres nothin we can do cause she will try to put him in jail. I cant tlk to her because shes gone most of the time and anything I say to her she feels is direspect I cant talk to her at all. she accuse me of doin this and that when im not. I don't know what else to do! please help me! someone! anyone!!!

Sounds like your mom basically became the child and left you to be the grownup.Cause she isn't being responsible at all.This needs to stop cause it will only get worse.And if it get's real bad in the household and child protection finds out ,all of you kids could get taken away.It's such a sad disruption to see this happen in households.Ecspecially when the kids are involved.Bottom line your mom needs help with the gambling.I would tell your mom you know you're leaving me in charge of the kids, the house,ect.when are you gonna take charge as a parent.You know,you could be really nice to your mom give her a hug and say mom I miss you.Sometimes that will trigger emotions and maybe she will wakeup.God I hope so.