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is my mom to strict? like everytime I have a boyfriend and it lasts for a while. she gets really mean. like threatens to not let me see him or says im always up his a**. and honestly I dont think I am because I only get to see him on weekends. and everything that goes wrong with me she blames it on him.and shes mean to him and says hes sneaky and tells me im gunna find out what kinda person he really is. but weve been together for 3 months now. and hes changed a lot, hes turning 18 and he says he knows im the one for him. hes really amazing to me and I dont want to loose him. but what do I do about her?
Your mother just wants the best for you and of corse shes not ganna like any of the boy friends you have untill your older and yes it is a little on fair but you have to under stand whats going threw her head. Shes probley really scared that your ganna become a young mother. I think if you want her to trust you , you should go on birth contol . My father at 13 told me right to my face that he is never ganna like any of my boy friends so I should just not bother having any. That dident last I had my frist child at 17 :( not fun at all . Please try to be as nice and understanding to your mother and be good. Always use condoms, and respect your self respect your slef. Yours truly, Demika ray
well I can relate to your situation very easily. Its my dad that is like this though. I have been dating him for over a year now and my dad still hasnt really accepted him. I think it is really that she is havin a hard time with you growing up. All parents want their kids to stay little forever. I know when I was with him for about 3 months it was pretty much h*ll. Just stick it out and dont give her any reason to not trust you with him. I say tell her how you feel and tell her you know she doesnt want you to grow up but it's going to happen and you have to do things on your own and she has to give you a little space. Make sure she knows that she can trust you.
I think that she is being protective of you. I wouldn't use the word strict... it's more nosey. I think that she is trying to watch out for you. I think you should sit both of them down at the same time and tell her how you feel. You should tell her that you know she is trying to look out for you but she should trust you and give you some space.
Dear thegurl05, Well from you other question...you want to get pregnant with this guy...no wonder you mother is upset...I'd be very upset to. You are too young to get pregnant and with someone you have only been with for 3 months? She is not being unreasonable but you sure are. Sue...good luck
I only wanted to get pregnant so she would kick me out so I could be with him.
she treats him with no respect and he does nothing to her.
I dont do things to make her not trust me.
