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Controlling,verbally abuisive boyfriend soon to be on death bed wh

Asked by qerlinn over 3 years ago, 3 answers.

abusive realationship I am so confused about my boyfriend he has a 5year old daughter that I love and I love him also we have been together for 4 months,I let them move in with me a month we met due to their living condition(bad)he doesnt work and only...

gets 550.00 a month from afdc.so I do a lot for them money wise but he does help some.I do the majority of everything at home and that makes me resesnt him because I dont have any kids of my own at home.I've talk to him about helping me more at home he helps for one week and then back to buisness.sadly he was diagnosed with brain tumors and has I to 5 years to live.I told him I couldnt take care of him and his daughter because it was to much on me I suffer from chronic depression so they moved out angrly to stay with his parents which he has issues with.I just need some advice on how to handle this it hurts really bad also his family doesnt talk to me anylonger.

mel_2005 Answered by mel_2005 on Jan 19, 2006, 10:35PM
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i think u should be there 4 him he is gunna pass away soon n that time is gunna fly in your gunna regret it when he does 4real

dark Answered by dark on Jan 20, 2006, 12:27AM
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Dying or not you shouldn't put yourself through possibly five years of hell. Pray for him and his daughter and let his family take care of him.

skipper sean Answered by guythatknows on Jan 20, 2006, 01:37AM
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I agree with dark there's nothing you can do besides let's say you do look after him for 5 years and fall so deeply in love with him, if he dies you'll feel 10x worse then what you do now. it's very hard choice to make but you did what's best for your future, unfortunatley the pain you're going threw is going to last for a while but luckiley you have only been going out for 4 months so it wouldn't take you that long to get over him. be strong girl and look forward towards your future

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