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How to make my controlling boyfriend change?

Asked by baby_girl_1234 about 1 year ago, 4 answers.
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I think my boyfriend is controlling. He always threatens to break up with me if I talk/hang out with my friends(girls or guys). I wont break up with him. How can I make him change?!

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Answered by angelfire2708 on Aug 25, 2007, 07:27PM
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Someone who loves you, respects you. He lets you have your own space and have a different life other than always being with him. He trusts you so he lets you do the things you want to do and doesn't question you about it.

Having a controlling partner is never a good thing. Your boyfriend should enhance your life, not make it miserable. Someone who treats you like a child and trys to control your every move doesn’t truly love you. They may think they and say they do, but they don’t. Someone who truly loves you will willingly give you the freedom to live your life as you choose.

You have lost touch with your friends and family. Basically what this means is you have lost touch with who you are. This is not good. In your mid teens, life is about finding out who you are. It takes a lot of your teen years to work it out. You are losing those years to someone who doesn't care about you. (You need to understand this)

Someone who threatens you, isnt worth your time! This guy doesn't care for your wellbeing. He doesn't love you and he is hurting you by ignoring your needs.

You cant make someone change!! So, if you want to be happy, dump him as fast as you can.

Answered by gasmanobt3 on Aug 25, 2007, 09:06PM
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I agree, having been a controlling jerk myself before. Only when you step back and see that all he does it what he wants, when and how he wants with whom he wants will you see him for the person he is. A controlling person will only give you as much room to move as he sees fit or is comfortable with. This is NOT love. It is an attempt to dominate and manipulate you to the point where you will lose your identity.
Cut him loose before you get hurt more than already has been done.

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 26, 2007, 02:46PM
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4 words: you Can't and He Won't! BEEN THERE TRIED THAT !!

Answered by beenthereb4 on Aug 28, 2007, 06:49AM
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I am in a controlling relationship as we speak. my boy friend is on the phone with me right now and he is freakin out bcause I texted a guy I work with. he has been like his for the whole two years we have been together.I have gooten out before...but he always calls me and begs and pleads to have me back-stating that he has changed.(he never does)I used to be a very popular girl but because of him I have no a sinle friend. and he even freaks out when I talk to cerain membrs of my family. this is ot a healthy relationship. I need to get out and not give a second chance and so do you. dont you want to be happy?

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