Should i have the baby?

I've been with this guy for 2 years but we split up because he wanted to take the relationship to the next level (babies) and I was still in school. I really like him soo much but I dont know if he feels the same or he just cant be bothered to be in a...

proper relationship but still want a baby. recently he asked me again if I wanted to have a baby with him now that I've finished school. im 19 and finished sixth form with 3a's and 2 b's in alevels. he is 28 and he got a business of his own. thing is I really like him sooo much and my parents respect him too. I really want to be with and have a baby with him but im confused. he says he loves me and will be complete with a baby. im confused..
1: I dont know if im ready for a baby
2: is he just using me to get a baby
3: will things change for the better or worse if I do get pregnant?
please help me...

Ok, so apparently you are questioning this, and children are something you NEVER question.. If he is that old, then he is already on track for marriage and kids, and maybe you should notify him to slow down, and if not, then leave him, because he cannot force you into something you do not want, and also, I would consider MARRIAGE as a first step, to make sure he is one you want to be connected to by a child for the rest of your life, and also, you can back out of marriage, but once you have a kid, that is it, overall, I would say NO unless marriage is a first option, sit down and talk to him about options, including financial state, raising the child, marriage options, and other similar important things... :]

ok there are a few things you need to think about before you consider any of this.

1. Think about yourself, YOU, not you and him. Are you ready? your 19, just out of school. He is 28 and has already gone threw his youthful years, built his own company and ready to settle down. You are yet to experience youth and having fun, he is going to make you settle down becos he is so much older and asking you to have a baby is not fair. You are going to have to give up going out for one, building your own career becos you'll be a young mother and give yourself to the relationship completely becos there will be no time for you anymore, theres a new number one in town and thats the baby, number 2 will be him, and you'll put yourself last which you're to young for.

2. Is it really fair of him to ask this of you? he sounds completely selfish. HE is 28, HE has his own company, HE is ready to settle down. what about YOU! and what you want? has he even asked that or is he just making demands?

3. Are you really inlove? are you inlove with him? is he inlove with you? or is your realtionship based around his offspring? is he getting impatient and just wanting someone to have his child? has he even proposed? or are you going to have this baby out of wedlock? becos if thats the case and he isnt willing to give you a ring and life long commitment, but he is looking for you to have his child it sounds to me he is just needing someone to have his kid and he isnt going to stick around afterwards.

Please think about these things, will you move in with him...etc...before you decide to have a baby becos with him or without him, you have that baby forever!

Well, I think you should really think it out and consider how YOU feel. I'm sure that he wouldn't use you just for a baby if you guys have been together for a while. And I'm not going to tell you to wait until your ready, because truthfully, your NEVER ready for a baby! But it's your life, and no one is going to have to live out the outcomes but you. If you guys dont work out, you'll be stuck with the baby that he insisted on having.