Confused on trust issues

I have a question, my girlfriend has recently become friends with a guy. She thinks this guy is one of my good friends which at one time he was, but now we dont talk as much and I truthfully don#039;t trust him at all. She swears she wouldn#039;t do...

anything with him but we have recently come off a time when we were broke up, we were broke up around three weeks and in that time she had found another guy but she came back to me. I#039;m not sure if I should get mad over here quot;hanging outquot; with this new friend or not. She also kissed another guy while were dating before but that was a long time ago, we have been dating a year now(not counting the time we were broke up)and I know without a shadow of a doubt that I love her and I think she loves me but I still dont know if I can trust her because she did cheat on me in the past. Even though we had only been dating a month when she cheated on me. She also lied to me about it and I just have found out about it from her the day after we started dating again. She has also been telling me that we are getting too serious, but the next day she will act like she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. Her and her quot;new friendquot; have become a little too close for me and I just want to know what to do. Please help me!! thanx

If you can#039;t trust her u can#039;t love her. Trust is one of the main aspects of love. You need to sit down with her, and tell her how you feel. If you don#039;t tell her how you feel then she can#039;t make things better and things will just continue to get worse.

Dear Friend -

The top most important thing in a good/healthy relationship is trust/honesty. If you can#039;t trust your girl then you can#039;t love her...trust comes before love!

I think you should sit her down amp; have a nice LONG talk with her (face to face)...tell her exactly how you feel amp; what you want out of this relationship!

Communication IS THE KEY

Sincerely,
Heather Buchanan
~Advice Councelor~