Confused and seeking

I don't know who I want to be with. I am a female and have never been with another female. But it is all I think about. I want to try it, but also want it to be discreet. Are there any web sites that will help me decide what to do?

No, but once YOU decide what to do, the websites will tell you where and how to contact people like minded. Above all, dont do anything dangerous like go to a stranger apartment, you dont want to be tied up in their basement waiting to be et like in Silence of the Lambs. Look up long distance dating etc and find out how to meet people SAFELY.