Confused and hurt

My boyfriend and I have been together for year and half. AWe both have very strong personaltize. a lot of the issue that we have been fight about we have already have talked about but it just doesnt seem like its getting better. I love him a lot but I...

dont know what to do anymore. he breaks up w/ and then he comes running back. he has been doing this threw out our relationship. he tells me that I need to stop playing games but it seems to me that he is. Also, when he hangs w/ the guy he has this power trip with me. I have told him many time that I will not be controled or treated in any disrespected way like his friend treats he girls friend. things were getting better up until I couldn't take anymore. when we fight he is always telling that im not living up to the girl that he wants. I dontknow what to do anymore b/c im not the type of girl to put up and shut up His friend dont even respect me at all. I just feel that we both have lost control of this and I dont know how to fix it.