Confused, after a year and three months together!

Well, my boyfriend Larry and I have been together for a year and three months today.
The past two or three months he has been acting alot different. Like he never wants to
talk about our future anymore. He used to make me promise him that I was going...

to
move in with him when he goes to the University college here; meaning I would have to
change schools. I agreed. He never mentions that anymore at all.
He used to tell me that he already thinks of me as a wife, and we would talk about the
kind of house we wanted, talk about if we have kids, what they will be like. But now,
whenever I bring up the future, he is like “I thought we werent going to talk about this
anymore”. That really hurts my feelings.
He used to tell me that he already thinks of me as a wife, and we would talk about the
kind of house we wanted, talk about if we have kids, what they will be like. But now,
whenever I bring up the future, he is like “I thought we werent going to talk about this
anymore”.
We used to do the most romantic things together, just us. Now all he wants to do is play
his video games, or have me scratch his back. He wants to always go places when we are
together. He used to never want to do that because he said that it wasted our time
together. We havent had sex yet, but I want to. And he has asked me too. I told him that I
cant do it thinking that later on, it may have to be someone else.
When we met, like 3-4 months later, we promised each other to be one another’s first and
last. I am just really scared. I need to know how I can tell if he really wants to be with
me. And what I can do to make myself feel better and not worry about us ending
anymore. I am really scared.....

first of all if u havent had sex w/ him yet hes probably a keeper!! u can trust this guy and u know hes not using u. most guys wen they r in college just wanna hang out and concentrate on school( i went throught the sam w/ my boyfriend) things will get better

He is young and so are you. You have known no one but each other. This is hard because he is thinking of his future in school as well as future after that. That is overwhelming enough. He is probably just as scared as you are right now. Life has many paths and it is hard to choose which one to take right now. Ok, don#039;t have sex with him just to keep him, or fulfill your sense of relationship. It will come in time, if it is meant to be, that I can promise. Talk to him about the here and now. If he wants to go out, it is because he is getting antzy thinking about his future. Let him go out and have fun. This is stressful for him too! Good Luck!