Why did i like doing stuff with a girl?

I am a 20 year old gil and i got a question about soemthing...It is really hard to explain but i will try my best...so i dont know how this really happened but me and this other girl started talking then we got closer and closer then one night she ended...

up fingering me and it prgressed to where we are having sex and using dildos on each other and etc...and by the way nobody knows about it because we are both scared...dont get me wrong and all i like it but i dont think that i could see us together like that but she asks me if i am bi or if i am a lesbian but i really dont see me doing anything with anybody but her (female) but guys that is a diffrent story and i love the sex with them, but i cant do that and either can she because we both get jealous so i dont know what to do..and i asked her and she said she would never come out and tell anybody so what should we do...she asks if i am a lesbian and i say no but she says what about this u have to be...so i dont know anymore can someone help me please...

So what if you like it that doesn't make you a leb your just interested do what makes you feel good you don't have to but a label on yourself if you want to keep doing it do it if you dont stop its just that simple whatever you choose to do at the end of the day your still you

It sounds to me like this was more than just sex. You mention how you and this girl get kind of jealous if you see other people. So it sounds like you two really do like each other. Is it possible that you have feelings for this girl but are too nervous to have a relationship with her? Are you worried about what people would think or say if you came out?