Confused

its kinda a long story, but ill try to shorten it...

In january I dated a guy and we dated and everything was great, we didnt
say I love you until we meant it and we both were virgins and gave
ourselfs to each other.

he always said things like he wanted to be with me forever. have kids when
we were older and get married, all that kinda stuff, when we kissed (for
me, dunno about him) it was major fireworks and we loved spending time
with each other.

I hate to admit this (mostly for the part coming up more into the story
) but im only 15, some people dont think you can be in love that young
but I say otherwise.

Anyways it was perfect..but of course something went wrong. or I wouldnt
be asking for help lol.

we ended up breaking up.. because he said things just werent the same
anymore between us :S..

pretty much out of the blue. well a week later I found out I was pregnant
(thats the part)and I told him of course.

but he still didnt want to be with me. I told him I would wait for him because
he was something special and well now im 'due' in 7 weeks!(33 weeks) and nothing has
changed.

we see each other in school and we have the same friends, and it has
kicked in that I really am pregnant but still nothing:S.. he has dated 3
other girls since we broke up and liked 8 all together (but they didnt
date him because they thought he should be with because of whats happening).

a lot of people tell me hes just looking for a girl to screw around with.
but a lot of people tell me that hes so confused, scared and doesnt know
what to do and will come around when the baby comes.

I dont think he will tho.

I have talked to him about 'us' happening again a couple of times but he
told me we're never gunna happen again.

and I believe him, we probably arent. but I cant get over him its
driving me crazy!!! I think about him all the time, cry over him all the
time, talk about him all the time.

and other guys have taken interest in me too. but I cant seem to be with
anyone else.

I want to wait for him and im willing too. but the down part is the pain
from not knowing if im waiting for nothing ......

Anything really would help from anyone.. I just dont know how to getting over him,or if I should... or if I
should wait :S

I would turn to friends or family but I always think there just telling
wut I want to hear or trying to be nice. and strangers of course would be
more to willing to tell me if im living in some fantasy.

Thanks!
-Amy.

wow what a horrible situation. im so sorry. I have to tell you, I know it IS possible to be in love at 15, I was. you're probably right, you probably won't get back together with him, and it's probably not a good idea to try to force or pressure him; he wouldn't be happy and that would make YOU unhappy too. have you talked to him and asked if he would help you out even if he didn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore? are you keeping the baby? have you considered giving it up for adoption? (I'm sure you've considered it) but it might be different now that you're pretty sure he won't be coming around much...

let me tell you something never have a baby just to keep the guy my because was with her man for 7 years he cheated on her constantly she had a baby to keep him and a year later they split up now they only see ech other once a week so he can pick up shannon on weekends the point is you shoudnt have kept it because your so young well you can give the baby away thats the only advice I can give the boy is young boys that are 25 dont want to have a baby yet so he wont come around hes obviously not intrested.