Confused

so the other day my friend is over the house we are having a sleepover. well we were sorta goofing around and well she kissed me and then one thing kinda lead to another and we had sex. it was great, but my guestion is does it make me gay, bi niether or both. thanks

Tough to say. You're definitely leaning towards "bi" or even gay, but sometimes these kinds of thing are one time deals. If you enjoyed it, and didn't feel uncomfortable, then there's definitely an element of homosexuality in you. Keep in mind that it can come and go, especially for women, so you may be "gay" today, and "straight" from here forward. Everybody's different, so it's tough to say for sure. My best advice is don't experiment with lots of sexual partners just to find out. It won't reveal anything, and can really screw things up for you. Just take it slow and lean towards what is "normal" until you're sure it's the wrong direction.

well since I wrote this q we have done it once more she is my best friend and maybe now even a little more I still am unsure if I am gay or not