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Asked by hatch about 1 month ago, 8 answers.

I am a 35 year old with 3 teenage daughters, 15, 14 and 11. Well my 14 yearold is having a baby. I was very angry at first. I am supporting my child 100%, we've all made mistakes in life. I am supporting her in effort for her not to make this same...

mistake again. I want her to finish high school and finish college and be a productive citizen and provide for her child. Do you think this is the right decision?

cogito ergo sum Answered by marianna86 on Oct 06, 2009, 06:33AM
389 answers

Yes ofcourse!

PArents have to always be there for their child no matter what.It's normal to get frustrated and angry at first.But you'll soon calm down and realize family's what matters most.And family always sticks together.

So help and support your daughter and your grandchild.Encourage her to go back studying and to lead a productive life.As well as teach her the duties of a mother and how to be responsible for the child.

She needs you now more than ever.Your baby needs you.

Answered by ell_c on Oct 06, 2009, 08:15AM
5 answers

im 15 and if I got pregnant I'd hope my mum would support me as much as you are your daughter (:

Answered by atsirt7 on Oct 06, 2009, 09:17AM
4 answers

My sister had her child at 15 years old, it was a blessing in disguse, but she would not be able to be the wonderful teenage mom that she is without the amazing support that my parents have given her. Support her, help her and most important still let her be a kid as much as is allowed. I love my nephew and he is one of the most loved little boys in the world. Please love your grandchild with all your heart and continue to love your daughter just as much. She needs you right now, more then you know. My sister finished highschool and is now in college, she still lives at home but she is getting her education. Best of luck, It won't be easy but it will be worth it.

Answered by keedo on Oct 06, 2009, 09:31AM
24 answers

Im 14 and it sounds very frightining so just make sure you also know what she wants... bt I dont know its a really tricky one... just keep her comforted and dont let this get in the way of her dreams when shes out of school ...and just dont let her see you upset... Because thats really hard to see your mom upset...

pose! Answered by someonesimple on Oct 06, 2009, 02:05PM
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im 13 and I know that if I were to get pregnant I would be disappointed in myself but my parents support would mean a lot to me. Also, I would ask my mom to babysit during school hours, because education is important, excpecially when raising a child. all I can say is please keep the baby!!! and also good luck to you and your daughter, I hope all goes well

viviana Cervantes Answered by viviana on Oct 06, 2009, 04:42PM
241 answers

im 14 and it can be really frighting to face something alone, and its good your doing that, that way the mistake she made will be a leasson that she will learn from it the right way and not suffering.

Answered by wispa_ap on Oct 08, 2009, 10:40AM
3 answers

I know a 15 year old who had a kid at 14 last year, but people who knew her supported her and now she's back at high school doing her exams next year and wants to go on at college.
I'm 13 going on 14 and it is very scary facing something with no family or friend help, so support her and you will become very close =)

Answered by pinkdottedbow on Oct 08, 2009, 02:31PM
616 answers

Your child is very lucky to have such a kind, supportive parent.

I'd give her many more restrictions if she went out and got herself pregnant at 14, though.

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