Condoms and guys.

So I need to know from guys who have had experience with this but if you are a girl and want to answer go ahead. Ok so guys when you use condoms can you feel anything? My boyfriend keeps telling me that he cant feel anything and I think hes lying but I...

need to know for sure because I tried to use one and now I pregnant because he couldnt feel anything I know that condoms take away some pleasure but I didnt think it would take all of it away. Anyways I was just wondering and would be really grateful if you answer with correct info.

No hunny, most men use that as an excuse so he doesn't have to wear one. Wearing a condom does take away some feeling but it does't cut if off completley.

im a guy, even with a condom, it fells perty good, but with out... nothing can compare

I agree using a condom you cant really feel to much exept the condom. Not using a condom is much better

they can feel it
most guys use that as an excuse for not wearing one
but they can still feel it, condoms only take away a small amount of feeling
but nowdays there are condoms to suit everyone
theres ones that are super thin and that
its better to wear one
than end up with an unwanted baby or an std

I really do not think women have any say in this.

Studies show that Men get seven times less pleasure than females without a condom, and nine times less with using the ultra thin condoms.

I barely get any pleasure using a condom during sex, causing my penis to go flaccid. Im sure most men will agree.

I know for a fact that both my ex-girlfriend and I found the sex without condoms better. far more feeling, far more pleasure.

having said that, it would be totally stupid to not replace the condom with another form of contraception. she was on the pill, so we were comfortable with intercourse without condoms. of course the pill isn't 100% effective, but no birth control is. THERE IS ALWAYS A RISK.

I personally would've used both the pill and the condom if I could, but (maybe like your boyfriend) whenever I use a condom, I seem to go flaccid. it's a common problem with a third of men suffering from it. it's not that I can't feel anything. I can definitley feel something. it feels great (though not as great as without the rubber), but for some reason johnny don't like the rubber, and he goes back to sleep!

it phucking sucks for me now as a single guy, 'because if I want to pick up a girl at a club and take her back to my place, there is always the fear that once that dom goes on, the fun will stop. but I've never really been one for one-night-stands anyway. nothing beats sex with a girl you love.

at the end of the day, if you have a strong relationship with your boyfriend, the core of the relationship should be founded on TRUST. if you don't believe him when he says he can't feel anything, then there's something amiss. if he would lie to you just to pursue unprotected sex, then there's something amiss. talk to him. look at other options.

there's the pill (both for girls AND guys) http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-418791/UK-scientists-invent-male-pill-taken-hours-sex.html

the female dom
http://www.avert.org/femcond.htm

the implant
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/contraceptiveimplant.htm

and others. research it on the net. don't just rip that dom off and phuck away. that's just plain stupid and irresponsible.

LOOK AT THE OPTIONS.

The wetness that touches our pen*s is what makes it feel so amazing sliding in and out without a condom is tons better than with a condom but unless your girl is on birth control I would use one.

I agree with the fact that a condom does take away a lot of feelin and kinda ruins the moment when yu have t put on the condom, but safe sex is great sex..when she is on birth control or the shot..as I experienced the condom did take away a lot of feeling and pleasure and it to0k longer to get where we wantedd. I did feel some but as another said da wetness and skin to skin and not havin to put on da condom does feel a lot better and what gives guys the more pleasure..I just thnk this issue should be adressed by both mates and compromised like birth control or the pills da guys and girls can take

Scroll down for the links someone else offered

when you use a condom, no matter what kind, it takes a lot of pleasure out of it, and a lot of feeling. The Penis' nerves can't actually feel the walls of the vagina with one very well. without a condom you can feel way more. it's the only real reason guys don't like condoms.

wrong. he can feel it, it just apparently doesnt feel as good. but you should stick with using condoms unless your in a relationship that you plan on being in for a While.

I don't notice any difference with a condom on the shaft provided that the head isn't also covered. So if they made condoms with the ends cut off for OUR pleasure then they would be something you could wear without permanently losing your erection.

Its painful. Uncomfortable. Takes away ALL of the feeling. Pretty much the worst thing ever, go with the pill, so much better.

Don't ask other people - their experiences have nothing to do with that your partner is feeling.

Oh, and ladies. If you want men to stop complaining about condoms, stop cutting your sons' foreskins off at birth.

Don't ask other people. They can tell you their experiences, but that has nothing to do with what your partner's feeling. There are ultra-thin condoms, of course.

jbbishop - a condom with the head missing is no condom at all.

Oh, and ladies - if you don't like guys complaining about condoms, stop circumcising your baby boys. God didn't make a mistake. Because of that barbaric practice, some cut guys I know say that even unprotected intercourse is a waste of time.

They do reduce the sensation slightly, but I am a guy, and I still prefer to use them, unless I know for sure that a partner is clean. Condoms may suck, but they suck less than contracting HIV or a STD. Some guys also think that as long as a person is HIV negative, then they're home free, or that other STD's are treatable. While this may be the case, guys who hate condoms should remember one thing. There is no cure for herpes. If you end up getting that, it will be with you permanently.

It is true that condoms do reduce the sensation somewhat, but they're necessary, unless you know that a partner is HIV/STD free, and that an alternative form of contraception is used. I am a guy, and I prefer to use them, until I know these things for sure. Some guys also assume that as long as their partners are HIV negative and are on the pill, that they are home free. However, HIV is not the only STD one can get. Some guys think that the other STD's are treatable, and therefore, condoms are unnecessary. To the guys who think like this, remember one thing. There is no cure for herpes. If you end up getting herpes, that stays in your system permanently.

with condoms your felling so good your pennis
if you play with guy it is too much good when you push his pennis and put your pennis in his back side

I always used a condom for about fourteen years from the first time I fucked before I went in raw - what a fantastic difference. The pleasure I'd been missing was almost unimaginable! I still mostly always wear a rubber and don't mind them, except to have to stop just before penetrating to put one on.