How to get my boyfriend to become less shy?

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months yesterday and sometimes I feel like he wont talk to me...I mean he does but not about the things I want him to talk to me about. we usually talk about things like school and friends and stuff like that...

but I want him to talk to me about like physical things sometimes but he si too shy. how can I get him out of that shyness... and what other topics can we talk about...for those of you like angelfire who are going to say well if you dont communicate then you shouldnt be doing nething physical well here is my answer to that all we have done is makeotu and he felt me up so I dont want to hear that answer. thanx

Ever notice that some teen relationships don't last very long? It's no wonder - you're still growing and changing every day, and it can be tough to put two people together whose identities are both still in the process of forming. You two might seem perfect for each other at first, but that can change.

Not every guy is going to be exactly how you want them to be. Especially teenagers. What makes for a successful relationship? It's that you feel that the other person knows who you are, cares about you, enjoys your company, and listens to you even when it's difficult. And, of course, vice versa. Without this base, there's not much to go on or grow on.

Think about it like this He cant be too shy if he can make out, and feel you up now can he? Its pretty logical! If he cant/doesnt communicate his feelings, then maybe he just isnt the right boy for you!

I honestly dont care what judgements you all put on me. Im not here to be judged. Everyone is entitled to their OWN opinions. Realize that IM NOT as young as all of you, so you are going to see things more differently than someone whos had, and been through the experiences!

You may gently change the subject to that direction what you want to talk about. Tell your thoughts and ask for his thoughts.

Hmm maybe he really is just shy...when I first started dating my boyfriend it was like that for a few days until I asked him how many people hes had sex with, now we pretty much talk about physical stuff daily. I think you should bring something up like when do you think is a good time to have sex in a relationship? or casually bring it up by saying one of my friends just had sex and shes only known the guy for 3 months.. just see what he says. it might just open him up to talking about physical things. just make sure you laugh about it, im sure that will make him feel more comfortable. hope this helped.
good luck!