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Commited boyfriend fantasising about other girls?

Asked by candicemarie88 7 months ago, 3 answers.

I've been seeing my boyfriend for over a year now. I feel really happy with him, and the feeling seems mutual. it's just I sometimes wonder how he feels about other girls, I've seen him looking at girls when we go on a night out and I've seen pictures...

on his phone or girls in bikini's... I have not mentioned it to him, because I don't want to make a fuss or cause an argument. but I was wondering for mainly guys in a relationship, do they look at other girls in a sexual way, or does that mean nothing? im unsure because he says he loves me, but I just don't quite get it, I mean I don't look at guys anymore, I feel totally in love and couldn't imagine myself with another guy, so if a man approaches me then I wont pay any interest, because I just don't want to... I'm really happy... I just don't know if he feels the sae way... Or is this normal?? Thanks =)

Answered by dadoctor on Mar 27, 2009, 04:17PM
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Hey this is very normal. If you are in cloud nine right now and don't look at any other guys, well that's ok too. We, men, love to admire beautiful women and also fantisise as well. The mind is such an unknown organ of the body that flashes ideas in millionths of a second! Don't worry and don't get jealous. If you start makingscenes the guy will consider you shallow and insecure. And the opposite could be said also.
Get along or now and learn to grow up.

Answered by cloud6556 on Mar 28, 2009, 07:33AM
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Most guys would look at other women yes. I personally dont because my girlfriend is the sexiest woman in the world so I would never. My dad says im pathetic and its ok to look at other women when im in the town and stuff. I just cant, I dont want to. But generally yeah most guys look at other women but there is no weight to it, he isnt going to run off with a piece of paper and leave you so dont worry. Do you think it is wrong? Maybe talking to him about would be good though.

Answered by jerzeyboy454 on Apr 27, 2009, 03:29PM
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I have a girlfriend, and I DO look at other girls (well, 2 tell you the truth she's not that hot but she has an 11 out of 10 personality so I love her 2 death), but 4 me im just a big attention hog, and I know im kinda hot (well, ok, REALLY hot, like my girlfriend asked her best friend what she would rate me (dont ask me y) and she said 9 :-D and I know my girlfriend thinx the same way), so id just f*cking LOVE it if some girl I didnt know came up 2 me and asked me out and I said no, I have a girlfriend, sorry, so I kinda do like flirt a bot, not much, but yeah, nothing 2 b worried about.

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