Choosing between two great guys...

Well, I'm 14 years old and I need help on this. I've got to choose between two guys, and I don't know how. The first guy is my boyfriend who I've been going out with for well 1/2 a year now. He asked me out, and I said yes, etc. etc. Well... He's really sweet and kind, and loves me a LOT. I like hanging out with him or kissing him, but not anything really above that. He seems to want more than I do, though... Anyway, I'm sorta getting off topic. This guy has really made my 1/2 year with him amazing, and I'm really glad to have him as a boyfriend... except that he's sort of a flirt. His best friend is a girl, he flirts with her all of the time, and I really can't stand seeing them together all of the time. I tried talking to him multiple times at school, and he walked away... going straight to his best friend. He has lots of friends that are girls, too, and he goes and flirts with them all, which basically breaks my heart. That's why I started liking another guy. The second guy is one of my really good friends, and I trust him a lot. He liked me first, I don't know how long, but I found out through one of my friends, and I was sort of nervous after that... I didn't want to lose him as a friend, though, so I talked to him a lot anyway, and I didn't really try changing the way I acted towards him. Well, turns out that this sort of made him still like me... After I figured that I liked him a month ago, I didn't want to tell him because I thought this may be just a little emotional change and that I was just wanting attention from someone... But he was there when I needed him, and I started liking him more and more... Pretty soon, my mouth ran off without my mind and I accidentally told him. He was extremely happy, yet he knows I have a boyfriend, and the two of them are good friends, too... I'm in love with this guy, too, now, and he says he loves me too... We've kissed, too... I know I'm being a cheat, but when I realized it he was kissing me... My boyfriend found out about me liking him, went ballistic, and became really depressed about it after that...
I love both of them, what should I do? Which one would you choose? HELP!
Sorry for that LONG question... But it's troubling me a LOT...

Honestly, I'm going through a similar situation, except we're a little bit older than you. I would be more like the 2nd guy that has liked you for 'who knows how long.' I can't tell you who to choose, because that's your choice. However, I think that the 2nd one seems more 'true' to your heart. On the other hand, you're only 14, so you still have your whole life to decide who you really want to be with.

Are you sure you actually love them I mean your 14 and having trouble choosing guys all ready. Are you sure you love them both the same maybe you love them both but you have to figure out witch would be best for you which one your happiest with and the one that you think won't cheat on you or do you wrong. If you have to write a pros and cons list on both of them and go for the one with the most pros or less cons. Don't forget you are 14 you have a bunch of years left to find the one you belong with don't rush into things cause all a relaionship will do is confuse and cause drama.

and im also having the same trouble kinda except its my guy or whatever he is trying to figure out who he wants. its either me or that "other" girl. grr I hate her but neway. he cant ever talk to her or see her or nething yet I live with him and can see him everyday but hes having a hard time choosing, I figured it would be easy but if he chooses me we can have a relationship and if he chooses her whats he going to have nothing really, till august when they can see each other because shell be 17. but whatever chooses I have to except that, but yeah, its a hard place to be in when you love someone and they might not want to be with you. so be conciderate of that other persons feelings if you dont choose him or jstu dont choose either one and then find someone else.

Thank you so much!!

I agree with omarhachem. the first one is already causing drama in your life and it's hurting you. He felt sad when he found out about you liking the other guy but at the same time he is a flirt like you said and that hurts you chances are that he'll continue that way. If you choose the second guy make sure you like him, it might devastate him if you go with him and then realize you aren't really in love with him and also ruin your friendship.