Choose: hottie or sweetie?

ok I need help choosing between two guys
I am a freshman and the two guys (john and thomas) are both sophmores. tom is a really sensitive guy. he's kinda nerdy, but hes the sweetest ever. I started liking him, and he said he loved me and all this stuff the second week after we had met. I really liked him and he was going to ask me out. but then when I got back from vacation, I met his kinda of friend, john. tom and I had been on kind of a break, saying we were friends with benefits, and I was really atracted to john. and he's way more attractive then tom. I hungout with john a lot behind toms back and I did some sexual stuff with john. my friends say john is to sexual for me, but I know he would never force me to do anything. when tom found out I liked john, he was really sad and said all this sad stuff like ' you broke my heart' and ' I loved you more than any other girl'. and for some reason I cant move on from him. I try and try, but I always seem to keep calling thomas. so I have to choose. wait and see if I can have a relationship with john, but it may be more phsyical. or go with tom, the nerdy guy who I know I would have a great relationship with, but im not really that phsyically attracted to, but I dont still like him in a romantic way! PLEASE HELP!!

-Anna

go for John TOm is just a waste of your time

ok hard...
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well its hard if you r convinced that John really likes you and wouldnt cheat on you then go with him, if you only like him because of his looks then go for Tom.
make it simple...
who makes you most happy when you spend time with the.. go with them.. thats what going out with somone s about.. being happy,, I mean its not like your gunna marry these guys.
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Good Luck