Cherry popped? and still spotting blood 2 days after..

Mkayy, well my sisters grad paety was on the fifteenth of august. And her and her boyfriends friends are from 18-23 years old. And they all hit on me, but theres only one that interest me, let's call him.. Dt. He just turned 19, and I see him alll the...

time, because he's my 'brother in laws' best friend. And I always talk to myspace and I have feelins fer him and I'm pretty sure he does too because he always looks at me, flirts and tells me that he can't wait til I'm older so we can go out and shiiit. But back to the grad party, it was like 6am. And only him, me and my friend, 'mae', were up. Dt wanted to go swimming so we went down to talk to him while he did. But he threw me in my pool and he jumpped in too. And we were splashin eavhother and juss flirtin. And I was cold so he kept coming up from behind me and holdin me, and he eventually fingered me.. Then us three went inside and me and dt went in the bathroom, while mae was somewhere else and I gave him a handjob and he fingered me then we had sexx. And then he fingered me until he had blood on his hand... Does this mean my cherry popped? This was the first time I had sex and I've been fingered a couple times before.. Also, is it bad that im lke spottin blood two days after I had sexx?
-btw.. I'm 13, but im mature fer my age and everyone thinks im between 15-17. And he's 19, and is fully grown down there, and he isn't smalll..

Personally, I don't think that you needed to go through all the details, but I have some questions for you. Has anyone talked to you about sex? You shouldn't be having sex at such a young age. Are you using protection? Do you know about STD's and getting pregnant?
You say that you are mature for your age. If that were true, you wouldn't be having sex at the age of 13.
I hope you speak to an adult about sex, maybe a counselor at school or an aunt, if you can't talk to your parents.

Fully agreed with katwoman, you're a little kid, don't try to pull that I'm very mature for my age BS, because trust me, when you get older, you learn that only little kids say that.

You got messed about with by a 19 year old, not sure where you live (don't care enough to look) but it's most likely illegal, they class it as rape.

So the bleeding could be a sign that your little girl bodys gotten all torn up down there, what with it not being MATURE ENOUGH.

Long story short (if you could shorten yours next time too) goto the doctors first to check that he didn't do any real damage down there, while raping you, this includes both physical and STIs. And to be honest, I visit the cops afterwards, because a 19 year old hitting up a 13 year old is just sick.

if he's 19 and your'e only 13 that would probably be considered rape and he could probably get sent to jail for doing that with you since your'e still a minor

wow no one answered you at all. Hey I don't know when you all first started having sex but who are you to judge her most young girls have sex around that age anyway. But have you had your period before you had sex? It is possible you might have been getting it. Also if it was your first time he might have just tore you and that is normal everything will heal and you will be fine But if you are having sex you should go to the gyno and get on birth control just to be safe there are places where they won't tell your parents and when they call they will use code. Good luck