Is this cheating or not?

If you are married and your spouse is having phone sex with another man would you consider that cheating???

yes I would consider it to be cheating as he'll evevtually get tired of having phone sex and will want the real thing

I'd probley call it pre-cheating.
Because technically its not cheating, because its verbal. But if your spouse is having phone sex with someone, there is a pretty high chance that they are having actual sex with them too. Which is obviously cheating. Even if they aren't having real sex now, they most likely eventually will. Over the phone or in person... either way, its not right.

I would not reagard as cheting, but I would get into this relationship, knowing the details, and also talking with the the other man. Maybe you can invite him, etc. So do not stay away form the story, be involved.

hell yes it is cheating, I mean talking sex is fine as long as it is with your husband/wife but when you start going to other people for sex, phone or otherwise, then it is flat out cheating.

I would call it cheating... it definately isn't helping your relationship... it's kind of like testing the water... you are still getting wet but you are making sure how good the water feels until you completely jump in.

yes unless you did the same thing