Cheating

okay I need an outsiders point of view. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We have a daughter together. A year ago he cheated on me and I have not been able to get over it. Our relationship is a catch 22, hes tries to make our relationship work but for one reason or another I am always falling back into my roller coater of emotions. I do not blame myself for his cheating but I know I am 1/2 responsible for things not getting better. I have thought about leaving him but I really want to make this work. I guess I am looking for suggestions? Anything to help me decide.

U need 2 4get about the past. But he cheat that is so bad. A cheater 2 me will always b a cheater. And I am a boy.

It's never easy to get over a loved one cheating on you, it hurts a lot and most of the time it's all you can think about especially when you stick around your loved one after something like that.

If you find yourself not being able to forgive or make peace with it I suggest a minister or counseler of some sort as a person with a outside point of view might be able to give you a bit of clarification.

It sounds like you really love him and that even though he cheated on you, you still want to be with him. If he refuses to see a someone with you, you shoul rattle his cage a bit and tell him your leaving. Pack your bags and move out for like 2 weeks, he needs to know your serious.

Good luck and let me know
Sean