Cheatin?

the guy that I've been with for 9 months decided to cheat on me...he was textin a girl who he thought was jamie but really it was a friend of mine who was withe me at the time. he started dirty textin, and sending pic and also asking for them. he called...

her baby and said he wanted to hang out with her the next day...but told me that we couldnt hang out because hid dad said no. I busted him out and we stayed up till about 3:30 in the morning talkin about it. he got extremley upset and admitted he was cheatin. he kept saying how sorry he was and how muched he messed up and was crying... I don't know what to do now because I lost my virginity to him, so I wanna work it out but part of me says no, that its not worth it. he says he will do anything to get me back even if its startin back over and giving me as much time as I needed. but this is my very first real heart break so help me out please!!!

Well to me, cheating is when youre actually married to that person, and sex has nothing to do with it. Youre technically just dating, and you and he both have the right to see who you want to see. Us girls get really emotional when we are sleeping with a guy, because God made one man and one woman to be together. If hes not treating you how you want to be treated in your 'relationship', stop having sex with him, and anybody else, and treat yourself like the princess you are! Go out on different dates, concentrate on school, friends, and family, and you will like yourself a lot more, and you wont have to spend all your time getting sexed-out and frustrated!

You know it is a shame that after 9 months he would still do you like that.. but anyways, like we all say, he is not the only guy in the world but then again, you do have close bonds with him... this is what I would say to do... ignore him for a couple of days, weeks, even months... and show him what things would be like without you.. if he is concerned...then he wants you.. if he is not really concerned.. then obviously it was not meant to be...good luck..
xx.
superfresh.