Cheated =[

yeah so I have an amazing girlfriend but im an idiot and I cheated on her enough said..tell her or no???

Yes you should defo tell her...You can't go through life with that guilt... if you respect her you should tell her before she finds out of somebody else. Be a man and admitt you have done wrong...explain you won't do it again. Oh and sorry is just a word...You need to prove to her you mean it.

well I think that yh you should tell her and it will hurt her you might loose her but if she really does love you she will give you another chance. but if you lie to her or just tell her part of the truth and not the entire truth ( that would be sorta like liein) then that will be really bad . nyways.. gud luck =]

yep I absolutely agree with rwal0706
be a man
tell her your sorry
dont make any excuses
just apologize
it will be 1000 times worse if she finds out, because the truth always comes out
she may respect you for telling her at least

TELL HER.

..enough said.(:

haha doesnt anyone agree with the NO part of the question

I don't agree with the 'NO'
I would defo want my boyf to tell me... then maybe I would give him another chance...If I found out off anybody else I would never go back and would be so hurt and embarrased! But you can try and work it out if you tell the truth... she will know you love her if you admitt it.

I agree you should tell her
I was cheated on before and he didn't tell me
but I found out from someone else. it was a lot
worse than it would have been if he was just
honest and told the truth to me. just be straight
up tell her you're sorry don't make excuses tell
her that you know it's hard to forgive but you'll
show her that you do care and hope she will
give you another chance.

it's not definite that she will give you another
chance. she may dump you. but hey you
should have been thinking about that before
you cheated on her.

lol, I do... I know it's not a popular view but I honestly think telling her is for your own benefit and to get it off your own conscience rather than for her...
However if there's any chance she will find out, tell her.
It is so much worse than finding out from someone else...

I agree with ty but I got to ask how would you feel if she cheated on you? Would you want to know? If it only happened once and will NEVER happen again and there's no way she will find out then don't tell her. But if she could find out then you have to.

someone agrees with me!
yeah that was kinda my view point. I was cheated on, quite frankly I really would rather have not known... especially if it was never going to happen again...

tell her son

If you tell her, make sure you understand that will probably end your relationship.
I completely agree with ty.
Most often, people tell their spouses/lovers when they feel guilty and want to ease their own feelings of guilt.
I think you need to explore WHY you cheated and if you will do it again.

ah thanks everyone..it wont happen again..I promise that to myself and all you who have helped me out much love..I dont think im going to tell her though it would crush her..and I just did it out of stupidity..I learned a lesson..so dont trip