Caught boyfriend wanking over porno chick.. please help

Ok here is a quick background... my boyfriend and I have the best sex ever.. we both have high sex drives and use toys, video cameras the lot.. its just fine .. last night we had a huge fight (we hadnt had sex in a couple of days) he went home and I sat in my car crying for a while then I decided to go to his place... I walked into his room and he didnt know I was coming or was there and I walked in and he got a fright he was wanking himself off to a porno ... I just burst out crying.. I was so angry and hurt.. he started yelling telling me to get out and I started saying very nasty things to him and then he started saying "well shes better than you" blah blah blah... and what was hurtful even more is she was ugly.. and he kept pulling himself.. what should I do?? how should I feel?? IM SOO LOST PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE

wow, ummmmm well even the best relationships break down sometimes, you just need to decide whether hes worth gettin bac together with him. and theres nothin rong with someone masterbatin so you dont need to feel inadequate- he probably just was tense and wanted to let it out somehow (especially as you hadnt done it wiv him 4 a while. when you burst in on him, he just said thins because he was annoyed and embarrased. talk to him about it and see if he also wants to get bac together wiv u.

sorry, he's a jerk. my boyfriend and I fight about porn too. saying she's better than you when she's an ugly skank on the internet was low and mean. I think it's normal to feel hurt. he's in the doghouse for awhile, and needs to come up with something real good to make this up to you. he already tainted what you've got by saying that though, and it might be hard for you to ever get him saying that out of your head. is he worth trying to forgive?

There's nothing wrong with mas*urbat*ng to a porno. He probably shouldn't have said what he said because you can't take words back. But you've never thought about other guys while you mas*urba*e???? That's half the fun! Everyone does it, they just don't talk about it.

Thank you very much everyone that replied... but it still does upset me about what he said but then I thought maybe he just said all of those nasty things becuase he was so embarssed and all of that.. thanks again.. anymore comments to be said please do...

I see why you wud b upset about him jerkin off to a skeety skank hoe..lolzz. but what he said topped it off...he does not diserve u ...u are way 2 good 4 him and you should know that...some guys are totally butts lolzz

I see why you wud b upset about him jerkin off to a skeety skank hoe..lolzz. but what he said topped it off...he does not diserve u ...u are way 2 good 4 him and you should know that...some guys are totally butts lolzz

first of all people say the weirdest things when angry my guy called me a corn gravy I know but you two should talk also dont let people see you cry too much because then theyll think your soft even though your not but just hold it unless hes worth crying then and only then is it acceptable

I hadthe same problem with my partner what you need to do is to talk to him and im sure it will work out fine im still upset with my partner but he assures me its me he wants so go talk to him

he;s a guy-and guys wank. you'll just have to live with it I guess. even if your havin sex with him he's still going to have his little "fantasies". my boyfriend just walked in on her husband on the internet doin the same and she was PISSED!

well if your not good enough for him no one is.. ;]