Cant kiss her!

hey guys, well, me and my girl have been going out for a while now and we've been kissin each other on the cheek but for some reason I CANT kiss her on the lips.. I dunno if its because of me bein a bit too shy or because of me thinkin that she's not ready enough for it because she's only 13 but I rekkon she IS ready.. I dunno what to do... and I must mention that I have never been kissed on the lips so I think im pretty scared as well... I know that my girlfriend is sort of scared but on the other hand she really really wants to kiss me on the lips... so HELP please...!!!

dude just go 4 it act confident & it will just happen im 14 my boyfriend is 21! we have been going out 4 ages he was my first kiss and he never even knew it. if you act like you know what your doing then it will just happen!

trust me

The first time can be a little nerve racking... but when you are with her and you are alone in a pretty location thats maybe somewhat romatic... ie don't take her to your basement. Just sit next to her, to me it feels more comfortable if the girl is sitting next to you on your left side... but thats just me... hold her hand with your left hand (if you are right handed) but that is optional ... now place your right hand on her right cheek while you are slowly moving in to her lips. Placing your right hand on her cheek is kind of romatic and for the first time kisser you will have more control over the situation this way. Start by doing one peck or two on her lips... now this is very important: Make sure your lips stay on her lips. Do NOT over lap because chicks don't like saliva on the outside of there lips. You can then maybe progress to a french kiss, but I dont know how she will respond to that right off the bat... so I would gently put a little tongue into her mouth... DO NOT shove your tongue in her mouth like you are trying to reach her tonsils or something... You first need to explorer her confort zone, because she this maybe weird to her at 13. Anyways good luck! Ps. How old are you?

Jason

Stare at her one beautiful night...look at her in the eyes and say. I am a first timer, because I never kissed anyone on the lips, you are going to be my first. Lets make it special. Hold her hands. and give her a peck on the lips...that will start you.
yeah...hold are you?

thanks people! I hope it helps me! I'm 16

I felt the same way with my first kiss. everytime my boyfriend asked if he could kiss me I got nervous, one time I was actually shaking. one night he kinda tricked me which kinda helped. I said I'd kiss him on the cheek and he moved and all of a sudden his lips were there. maybe tricking the other person isnt a good idea for you (your girlfriend) but it worked for me and now I'm a kissing fool!

awww my boyfriend is the same way he is just so nervous and when I try to do it he pulls away and I get all embarrassed and say I'm sorry but he kisses me sometimes after that but its usually just a peck on the lips. don't feel bad.

Hi,I'm here to help.Me and my boyfriend were really nervous too,but we both wanted to.Finally my boyfriend got up the courage and we do it whenever we get the chance,so heres some advice:Youve been kissing her on the cheek and thats a great start,If you want to go for the gusto try to take her somewhere where noone else is around and if you think sh'es ready the best thing to do is just kiss her and then wait to see what she thinks or says,Goodluck,try not to be nervous!:]